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" Around 2001, I started analyzing lesbians. I started to realize that even really butch-acting or -dressing women still had a strong female identity that I never had. "
Women
Strong
Realize
" As you get older it's more confusing. Suddenly, there's more pressure to fit in to your assigned gender. "
Gender
You
Pressure
" Deep down, my mom had long suspected I was gay... Much of her anger and hurt came from her sense of betrayal that she was the last to be told. "
Deep
Hurt
Long
" For me, it was never a question of whether or not I was transgender. It was a question of what I'd be able to handle transitioning and having to do it in the public eye. One of the issues that was hard for me to overcome was the fear of that. "
Overcome
Eye
Fear
" Gender is between your ears and not between your legs. "
Gender
Your
Between
" I absolutely believe in assimilation. I don't believe I'm any different from straight people. My wants and needs are the same as theirs. I don't look at sexual orientation as that big of a deal. It's just an orientation. "
Different
Believe
Look
" I always felt like the male from the time I was a child. There wasn't much feminine about me. "
Like
Always
Child
" I always had this idea that, 'Sure, I wished I was a boy and felt more like a boy and all of that.' But I wasn't, so I would deal with it. And I for some reason thought there were other lesbians that felt that way and that was just part of that community. "
Thought
Always
Boy
" I always wanted to shave. It is a very natural process. For my birthday I got a lot of shaving stuff. "
Birthday
Process
Natural
" I came out around 25 publicly. "
I Came
Publicly
Came
" I confused gender identity with sexual orientation. Your gender identity is about who you are, how you feel, the sex that you feel yourself to be. Sexual orientation is who you're attracted to. "
Sex
You
Yourself
" I don't have the luxury of doing things privately. "
Privately
Things
Doing
" I feel really good, I feel like a man now, and I'm really happy. "
Man
Now
Like
" I had felt uncomfortable as a woman my whole life. "
Woman
Felt
Whole
" In school I related to boys. "
Related
School
" It felt as if my body was, like, literally betraying me because I went from a very athletic, straight-up-and-down little kid to a very curvaceous woman, and it was just horrifying to me. "
Me
Because
Woman
" I thought, transgender people are much worse off than I am. That's why they're willing to risk everything to be who they are. But the older I got, the harder it got to stay in my body. "
Risk
People
Why
" I've been an activist in the LGBT community for a long time. I think nothing's changed, I'm just a little bit more focused on the 'T' now than I was on the 'L' or the 'G.' "
Time
Community
Long Time
" I've waited my whole life to be able to have body hair - but I never thought I'd have back hair. But what are you going to do, right? "
Thought
Back
Body
" I was never religious. "
Religious
Never
" Parents have to understand: if your kid isn't you, don't blame the kid. "
Understand
Parents
Kid
" There's a gender in your brain and a gender in your body. For 99 percent of people, those things are in alignment. For transgender people, they're mismatched. That's all it is. It's not complicated, it's not a neurosis. It's a mix-up. It's a birth defect, like a cleft palate. "
Body
People
Like
" Until I really accepted this about myself and got over any of my own transphobia that I had, I really felt like I wouldn't be accepted. I thought I would ruin my life. "
My Own
Life
My Life
" When I realised I was transgender I was so afraid of what my transition would do to everyone else in my life and how they would react to it and would I be rejected? "
React
Transition
My Life
" When I was really little, it was very clear to me that I felt like a boy, and my friends were all boys. "
Boy
Me
Little
" When you transition, everyone kind of has to transition around you. "
Around
Kind
Transition
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