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All Quotes by author - Paloma Elsesser
" A huge part of my career and how I want to participate in the world is being unapologetically myself and being honest and vulnerable. "
Want
Career
Honest
" At times, the curve/fat/plus convo tends be this 'out of the dark' story, like, 'I used to be insecure, but now here I am.' But that is not my reality, and for most of the people, that isn't their reality, either. "
Story
People
Now
" Beauty means expression and being your most authentic self. "
Beauty
Most
Self
" Embrace the grease, if any, and look fresh and human. I like to look like a glazed doughnut. "
Look
Like
Human
" For makeup, I swear by a base of Embryolisse, Nars concealer, that Bobbie Brown foundation stick, Pat's highlighter, a brow fill-in with dark brown eyeshadow and angle brush, a groom with Anastasia brow gel, an eyelash curl, and two swipes of drugstore mascara. "
Two
Foundation
Dark
" Growing up, people would always say, 'You have such a pretty face.' It's kind of backhanded. That's the kind of things we have to stomach. "
Face
Growing
Growing Up
" Having a multi-cultural background has granted me access into different ideologies, cultures, and ways of living. It has shaped who I am and how I participate in the world. "
World
Who
Me
" I am always dabbling in new skin routines, but it's always about moisture. "
Skin
Always
I Am
" I am trying to be the girl I didn't have. That's important to me. I have to be conscious of that. In this weird, dark, small, very intimate way, there's a girl out there who relies on me. And that's super important to me, and I don't want to let her down. "
Dark
I Am
Me
" I die wearing a bootie for three hours. I'm like, get these off of me! "
Hours
Off
Three
" I had seen images of Crystal Renn and Sophie Dahl growing up, but I didn't really know about the plus-size fashion industry or how lucrative it was or, like, that it was changing or that I was even invited. "
Growing Up
Fashion
Growing
" I have to remind myself when I'm on a job and I'm feeling a lull in attitude or confidence or whatever, I'm there for a reason. I have to constantly remind myself of these almost corny Pinterest mantras, like 'You are worthy.' "
Myself
Attitude
Confidence
" I hope that in 50 years I can look back and say I made my most fervent efforts to provide visibility for the unseen. "
Look
Back
Hope
" I like looking wet, sweaty, dewy, fresh. "
Wet
Looking
Like
" I'm happy to sparkle like a glazed disco ball. "
Happy
Sparkle
Like
" I moved to New York for school right after I turned 18, but I started getting into trouble - so I went home to L.A. to regroup. "
Trouble
Home
New York
" I originally went to school for writing, for non-fiction. I'm specifically a poetry major within literature, but I don't know. "
Within
Poetry
Writing
" I remember going to the Gap when I was in the fifth grade, and I desperately wanted a pair of blue jeans. I was with my dad, and I remember picking up the jeans, looking at them, and thinking that they had to fit me. But there was nothing that fit me. This was before the age of stretch, so I was trying on adult Gap. "
Thinking
Age
Blue
" I think I felt pretty alienated, being bigger, being mixed race, being of lower socioeconomic standing. "
Standing
Bigger
Pretty
" I think self-love isn't some destination you get to and you are then incapable of feeling those feelings, but a journey in which you adapt your experiences to make for a happier life. "
Life
Think
You
" It's important for people to understand where things come or what they represent. "
Important
Understand
Things
" It's important to see color. We are not the same. We have very different experiences. "
Same
Important
Color
" It's not fair for little kids to feel bad about themselves for how they look. "
Bad
Not Fair
Feel
" It's not that that I'm not comfortable being naked, but when you grow up fat, you can't take away the shame or embarrassment even though you're a model. It's not just erased. "
Naked
Shame
Fat
" It's really hard not to fall into that trap of insecurity when you're a model. Beforehand, I never looked at myself in a huge monitor with 30 people around it every day. "
People
Day
Fall
" It took a lot for me to be able to say that I'm a plus-size model or a model at all without feeling terror or this kind of panic, because it was something so unplanned. "
Without
Panic
Kind
" I wasn't scouted in the mall as a kid; it just kinda happened naturally 'cause of Instagram and New York and being visible, which is cool. Things just started rolling in. Timing was in my favour 'cause the Internet acted as a catalyst for the fashion industry to change and be more open 'cause people demanded it. "
People
New York
Cool
" I went to private school my whole life. Growing up in Los Angeles, you're surrounded by not just Connecticut privilege but, like, your-dad's-a-movie-star privilege. "
Life
Growing Up
Growing
" I went to small liberal schools my whole life, and I was also a bad girl in high school; I went to, like, five schools. "
Life
Small
Girl
" My parents always supported me and complimented me on other things, not just my looks. They told me I was capable, that I was smart, that I was creative. "
Creative
Always
Smart
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