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" I grew up in a Chinese American enclave where the person who lived down the street had literally lived down the street from my mother in Shanghai. "

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" Shanghai, the city where I was born and spent my first four and a half years. It's not necessarily the most pleasant or most comforting place, but I have blood memory there, my core was formed there, so I need to go back often, or else I become empty, lost, without meaning. "

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