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" If I am to truly become an autonomous woman, then I must take over that role of being my own guardian. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
My Own
Become
Own
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" I am far more of a loner than people would imagine. But I am the most gregarious and socially interactive loner you ever met. The thing is, I am fascinated by people's stories and I'm very talkative and can't ever say no to anything or anyone, so I tend to over-socialize, to give away too much of my time to the many people I adore. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
People
Say
Time
" I was a bartender for a long time, so I know how to make drinks, but I'm more likely to offer them than to have them. I think this is one of the reasons why I get to live longer than my great-grandmother did, and why I get to produce more writing than she did, and why my marriage isn't in dire straits. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Time
Think
Writing
" When I lost my friends, it was because I had used the power of giving on them recklessly. I swept into their lives with my big fat checkbook, and I erased years of obstacles for them overnight - but sometimes, in the process, I also accidentally erased years of dignity. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Process
Power
Obstacles
" I think a lot of people who feel as though they desperately want to be married oftentimes simply desperately want to have a wedding. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Who
Want
Think
" Oh, I just want what we all want: a comfortable couch, a nice beverage, a weekend of no distractions and a book that will stop time, lift me out of my quotidian existence and alter my thinking forever. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Nice
Book
Weekend
" And we have a little herb garden, which survived the winter thanks to global warming. It makes me feel like a cool, old Italian housewife, that I kept my rosemary alive outside all winter. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Garden
Cool
Alive
" Which is - you know, like check it out, I'm pretty young, I'm only about 40 years old. I still have maybe another four decades of work left in me. And it's exceedingly likely that anything I write from this point forward is going to be judged by the world as the work that came after the freakish success of my last book, right? "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Book
World
Work
" When I diagnose my depression now, I think it was partially about saying goodbye to these kids that I always expected to have but already knew that I wouldn't. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Now
Depression
Think
" I think that people who live in cultures without quite so much privilege, opportunity or grandiosity have a little bit more respect for the workings of destiny, and the limitations that people can find themselves in through no fault of their own. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Live
Opportunity
Find
" If I could read while I was driving, showering, socializing or sleeping, I would do it. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Sleeping
If I Could
Driving
" I have these new policies toward my life, like 'I will not accelerate when I see the yellow light.' "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Yellow
Light
My Life
" My career started young and I was really ambitious, and then I had success and I hung out with people who were much older. I think I might have been temporally misplaced, so I thought I was 40. It was a premature midlife crisis. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Success
Think
People
" Absolute certainty is not something I strive for anymore. I've learned the hard way that destiny usually looks upon our most strident convictions with amusement, or perhaps even pity. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Most
Way
Looks
" I myself have never been enchanted by the dream of the white wedding, and, heaven help us, the expectation that this exquisitely catered event should be 'the happiest moment' of one's life. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Life
Wedding
Moment
" When somebody has an enormous success in this culture, people start asking two questions, which are 'What are you doing now?' and 'How are you going to beat that?' And I have to say, I love the assumption that your intention is to beat yourself constantly - that you're in battle against yourself. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Culture
Love
People
" Mine is just a simple old human story - of one person trying, with great rigor and discipline, to comprehend her personal relationship with divinity. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Great
Discipline
Relationship
" I feel like there are women who are genuinely born to be mothers, and women who are born to be aunties, and women who really probably not should be allowed near children. The tragedy that happens is when any one of those women ends up in the wrong category. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Up
Feel
Children
" Childlessness doesn't make people selfish; selfishness makes people selfish. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
People
Selfish
Selfishness
" My writing practice taught me the important thing is steadfastness. It's not necessarily discipline. Discipline can become a prison. When your spiritual practices become another thing for you to be anxious about, they've lost their usefulness. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Practice
Spiritual
Writing
" I have no business being a journalist. I'm the least, I'm the least - I'm the most trusting, I absolutely make a habit of believing anything that anybody tells me about themselves. I've never had any reason in the world to think that anyone has wanted to harm me, or lie to me. I believe whatever is being sold, most of the time. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
World
Habit
Business
" I've come to realize that the contemporary creative culture is not generating the best possible outcome. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Culture
Creative
Best
" I think sometimes we look at other people's marriages and we think they must always be so happy together. I don't know anybody who's married for a long time who hasn't somehow made room in their love story for the hate and resentment that they sometimes feel toward each other. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Happy
Time
Think
" I love my friends and family, but I also love it when they can't find me and I can spend all day reading or walking all alone, in silence, eight thousand miles away from everyone. All alone and unreachable in a foreign country is one my most favorite possible things to be. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Silence
Day
Alone
" Every few years, I think, 'Maybe now I'm finally smart enough or sophisticated enough to understand 'Ulysses.' So I pick it up and try it again. And by page 10, as always, I'm like, 'What the hell?' "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Enough
Smart
Page
" I've always considered myself lucky that I do not have many passions. There's only one pursuit that I have ever truly loved, and that pursuit is writing. This means, conveniently enough, that I never had to search for my destiny; I only had to obey it. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Destiny
Search
Writing
" You know, even I have had work or ideas come through me from a source that I honestly cannot identify. And what is that thing? And how are we to relate to it in a way that will not make us lose our minds, but, in fact, might actually keep us sane? "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Know
Lose
Me
" I know I'm not a self-indulgent idiot; I also know I'm not the second coming of Deepak Chopra. If I had believed either of those, or both, as some people do when they get famous, that's when the mental illness arrives. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
People
Famous
Mental Illness
" Creativity itself doesn't care at all about results - the only thing it craves is the process. Learn to love the process and let whatever happens next happen, without fussing too much about it. Work like a monk, or a mule, or some other representative metaphor for diligence. Love the work. Destiny will do what it wants with you, regardless. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Destiny
Love
Work
" Sanity and clarity are more important for me and I'm willing to give up a lot of shimmer for it. I'm willing to have more boring friends, who are sane. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Boring
Important
Clarity
" When I look at my life and the lives of my female friends these days - with our dizzying number of opportunities and talents - I sometimes feel as though we are all mice in a giant experimental maze, scurrying around frantically, trying to find our way through. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Friends
Opportunities
Life