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" If you write memoir, it can't be about blame or hurt; it has to be creative. "

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" I was raised in an observant Jewish household, so for me, Hebrew prayers - the sounds, the sunlight streaming in from the stained-glass windows of a synagogue - bring my father back to me as surely as if he were sitting next to me, my head pressed against his shoulder. "

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" My desk is covered with talismans: pieces of rose quartz, wishing stones from a favorite beach. "

" I do whatever is necessary in order to maintain the equanimity we all need to withstand the disappointment and rejection that are the lot of every writer, no matter where we are in our careers. "

" I don't think it's possible to separate out the strands of a writer's history, circumstances, life events, and that writer's themes. "

" When I sit down with my notebook, when I start scribbling words across the page, I find out what I'm feeling. "

" I am devoted to my husband and son. I am devoted to the practices and rituals that imbue our lives with a sense of meaning and purpose, that help me to live my days in the most emotionally and intellectually productive manner. I am devoted to the idea of devotion itself. "

" I knew I wanted to be a writer before I knew that being a writer was possible. "

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" I do strongly identify with being Jewish. I was raised Orthodox and had a childhood complicated by the fact that my father was deeply religious and my mother was not. "

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" Confidence is highly overrated when it comes to creating literature. A writer who is overly confident will not engage in the struggle to get it exactly right on the page - but rather, will assume that she's getting it right without the struggle. "

" I'm an urban person who loves living in the country. "

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" Sometimes when I'm at my desk, I'll realize that I have contorted myself completely, and I haven't moved for hours, and that my legs have fallen asleep. I am elsewhere, not in my body, not in the room, not in my house. "

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