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" It was the Victorians who covered the piano legs and drew a heavy curtain over what a lady got up to in her boudoir. "
Laurie Graham
Over
Lady
Legs
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" Once, every woman owned a small mirrored compact, and it was considered normal - sophisticated even - to flip it open to discreetly check for things like nose-glow or lipstick smudge. "
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" I speak pretty fluent American, though I do so with a strong British accent, and I love America: The scale and the variety of it are astonishing to someone not born there, and I'm convinced that its energy and generosity have somehow rubbed off on me and affected my writing. For the better. "
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" The wheels of publishing never slow down. "
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" Far more than dreading ending up in a care home myself, I dread having to put my husband in one. "
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" I'm thankful my parents obliged me to live with the unvarnished truth: I might not have been a looker, but I was a better speller than the prettiest girl in my class, and I was funnier, too. "
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Me
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" Times may have changed, but there are some things that are always with us - loneliness is one of them. "
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" Sorry, I don't do castles. I hate those winding turret stairs. "
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" My preferred style is to write in first person, so I always have to play around with possible narrator voices until I find something that works. "
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Style
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" I have but one rule at my table. You may leave your cabbage, but you'll sit still and behave until I've eaten mine. "
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Table
" My husband is stricken with dementia, and it's a trick of his condition that events and people from his past are more real to him than what happened five minutes ago. "
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Events
" Being eye candy always was a short-term career, and here's the reason. The world finds young women more attractive than old women because youthfulness signals fertility. "
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Young
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" I almost always use first person voice in my novels. It has its limitations, but it gives a sense of immediacy that's hard to create with an anonymous, all-seeing narrator. "
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Create
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" I hate to think I ever make my husband frightened or unhappy, but I suspect I do. "
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Unhappy
Think
" The thing about praising beauty is that good looks are an unforgiving task- master, a Forth Bridge of a maintenance job. The passing years present their accounts. Younger models become available. "
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Bridge
Good
" Even professional, paid carers aren't always models of saintly behaviour - and they know they can knock off at the end of their shift to go home, take an uninterrupted shower, and have a normal conversation with someone. "
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End
Professional
" I have an idea for a story, and if the idea is going to work, then one of the characters steps forward, and I hear her voice telling the story. This is what has happened with all the books I've written in the first person. "
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Work
Story
Her
" In the Seventies, my children played in the street, read politically incorrect stories, ate home-cooked food and occasional junk and, yes, were sometimes smacked. "
Laurie Graham
Sometimes
Children
Street
" My research process doesn't vary much. I do a little reading to establish a timeline and decide how I'm going to approach the story. "
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Process
Going
Reading
" I've been lucky enough to travel widely. When you're based in Europe, it's very easy to go to Madrid or Budapest for the weekend. I also lived in Italy for ten years and now live in Ireland. "
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You
Enough
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" People invade your space and offend your sensibilities because, to be plain, they couldn't care less about you. "
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" My go-to author for knowing it all is Evelyn Waugh. 'A Handful of Dust' is as perfect as a book can get. "
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" When my children were young, one of the treats promised by their grandparents was a ride in Grandad's car. "
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" I've always jealously guarded my feminine mystique. I've been married twice, and neither of my husbands has ever seen me put my face on. "
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" I love working fictional characters into a piece of history. It plays to my strengths, which are characterization and dialogue, and assists me in my admitted weakness, plot. "
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" I know my parents loved me - they certainly did everything they could for me - but displays of affection were kept on a distinctly low flame. "
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Loved
Low
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" The terror dementia sufferers must feel is unimaginable, but the techniques they use to hide their difficulties - the ducking and diving and keeping the world laughing - are perfectly understandable. "
Laurie Graham
Hide
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" Caring burns a lot of fuel - psychological and physical, too, if any lifting is involved. The energy tank is soon emptied, and the toll caring takes is well documented. It's called carer burn-out. "
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" My mother was a fastidious and orderly homemaker. I was the messy but creative type. I picture her following behind me through life with a damp rag and an air of exasperation. "
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Me
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" Childhood doesn't have to be perfect, and children don't have to be beautiful. From a bit of grit may grow a pearl, and if pearl production doesn't materialise, the outcome will still be preferable to the shallowness of vanity. "
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Beautiful
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" There is something very easy about women's friendships that you don't see as often with men. We all know examples of this, when women will just call each other up or drop a line, not with anything specific to say. "
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You
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Men