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" I've always been afraid of saying no to people because I don't want them to be disappointed and dislike me. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Want
Always
Me
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" I think a lot of people who feel as though they desperately want to be married oftentimes simply desperately want to have a wedding. "
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Want
Think
" Childlessness doesn't make people selfish; selfishness makes people selfish. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
People
Selfish
Selfishness
" That is who Barack Obama is - a person of admirable character - and that is who he has remained for me over these last four years. I have not agreed with his every decision, but never once have I seen him break his cool, lose his composure, or abandon his insightful perspective - even during the most serious and/or absurd national disasters. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Cool
Character
Perspective
" Despite having written five books, I worry that I have not written the right kinds of books, or that perhaps I have dedicated too much of my life to writing, and have therefore neglected other aspects of my being. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Life
Too Much
Worry
" When I look at my life and the lives of my female friends these days - with our dizzying number of opportunities and talents - I sometimes feel as though we are all mice in a giant experimental maze, scurrying around frantically, trying to find our way through. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Friends
Opportunities
Life
" I should just put it bluntly, because we're all sort of friends here now - it's exceedingly likely that my greatest success is behind me. Oh, so Jesus, what a thought! You know that's the kind of thought that could lead a person to start drinking gin at nine o'clock in the morning, and I don't want to go there. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Start
Thought
Success
" Marriage is not simply a romantic union between two people; it's also a political and economic contract of the highest order. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Political
People
Romantic
" When I diagnose my depression now, I think it was partially about saying goodbye to these kids that I always expected to have but already knew that I wouldn't. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Now
Depression
Think
" There's no reason to keep a piece of furniture in your house that is so sacred and rare that you can't put your feet up on it and a dog can't jump up on it. Likewise, a book that sits on a shelf like a piece of porcelain, only to be admired, never to be read again, is a dead book. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Feet
Dog
Book
" There are times when the only access I have to the truest person that I am is when I'm alone and trying to solve a sentence. It's exciting, even when it's frustrating, even when I can't do it right. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Alone
Person
Only
" You know, even I have had work or ideas come through me from a source that I honestly cannot identify. And what is that thing? And how are we to relate to it in a way that will not make us lose our minds, but, in fact, might actually keep us sane? "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Know
Lose
Me
" When somebody has an enormous success in this culture, people start asking two questions, which are 'What are you doing now?' and 'How are you going to beat that?' And I have to say, I love the assumption that your intention is to beat yourself constantly - that you're in battle against yourself. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Culture
Love
People
" I don't think you can come into your wisdom until you have made mistakes on your own skin and felt them in reality of your own life. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Think
Reality
Mistakes
" I was a writer before 'Eat, Pray, Love,' and I'll be a writer after it's over. It's what I want to do for the rest of my life. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Want
Eat
Life
" I was a bartender for a long time, so I know how to make drinks, but I'm more likely to offer them than to have them. I think this is one of the reasons why I get to live longer than my great-grandmother did, and why I get to produce more writing than she did, and why my marriage isn't in dire straits. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Time
Think
Writing
" You know, why at the end of your life should you assemble thousands of pages of 'Why am I so sad, why am I so depressed?' Instead, assemble thousands of pages of why you're so content. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Know
Life
End
" Now, if you are like me - if you are like practically anybody in America - then you probably hold some negative opinions about the French, based upon movies, rumors, recent headlines, unfortunate run-ins with Parisian waiters, or... you know... all that unpleasantness surrounding the Vichy regime. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Negative
Me
Know
" But, ancient Greece and ancient Rome - people did not happen to believe that creativity came from human beings back then, OK? People believed that creativity was this divine attendant spirit that came to human beings from some distant and unknowable source, for distant and unknowable reasons. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
People
Spirit
Believe
" Unfenced by law, the unmarried lover can quit a bad relationship at any time. But you - the legally married person who wants to escape doomed love - may soon discover that a significant portion of your marriage contract belongs to the State, and that it sometimes takes a very long while for the State to grant you your leave. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Marriage
Love
Law
" I feel like there are women who are genuinely born to be mothers, and women who are born to be aunties, and women who really probably not should be allowed near children. The tragedy that happens is when any one of those women ends up in the wrong category. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Up
Feel
Children
" Mine is just a simple old human story - of one person trying, with great rigor and discipline, to comprehend her personal relationship with divinity. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Great
Discipline
Relationship
" I think sometimes we look at other people's marriages and we think they must always be so happy together. I don't know anybody who's married for a long time who hasn't somehow made room in their love story for the hate and resentment that they sometimes feel toward each other. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Happy
Time
Think
" Sanity and clarity are more important for me and I'm willing to give up a lot of shimmer for it. I'm willing to have more boring friends, who are sane. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Boring
Important
Clarity
" Here's the thing: the unit of reverence in Europe is the family, which is why a child born today of unmarried parents in Sweden has a better chance of growing up in a house with both of his parents than a child born to a married couple in America. Here we revere the couple, there they revere the family. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Family
America
Parents
" I have these new policies toward my life, like 'I will not accelerate when I see the yellow light.' "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Yellow
Light
My Life
" We set up one rule in our house, which is, 'Guests of guests cannot bring guests.' That rule was required because that happened one weekend, and we finally said, 'Okay, you know what? That's a little too much.' "
Elizabeth Gilbert
House
Know
You
" What I think is amazing is not that 85% of people who get married under the age of 25 get divorced, it's that 15% of them stay together. How did they manage to pull that off? You almost can't wait too long. It's the single simplest measure to predict divorce. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Age
Together
People
" When I lost my friends, it was because I had used the power of giving on them recklessly. I swept into their lives with my big fat checkbook, and I erased years of obstacles for them overnight - but sometimes, in the process, I also accidentally erased years of dignity. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Process
Power
Obstacles
" There were times, especially when I was traveling for 'Eat, Pray, Love,' when, I swear to God, I would feel this weight of my female ancestors, all those Swedish farmwives from beyond the grave who were like, 'Go! Go to Naples! Eat more pizza! Go to India, ride an elephant! Do it! Swim in the Indian Ocean. Read those books. Learn a language.' "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Ride
Love
Pizza
" I know I'm not a self-indulgent idiot; I also know I'm not the second coming of Deepak Chopra. If I had believed either of those, or both, as some people do when they get famous, that's when the mental illness arrives. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
People
Famous
Mental Illness