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" The parents' job is to be there for their kids, not the other way round. Troubles between parents need to be talked through with friends and not visited on the children. "

Susie Orbach

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Parents

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Treat

" I'd like to see much more understanding of emotional issues around hurt, abandonment, disappointment, longing, failure and shame, where they stem from and how they drive people and policies brought into public discourse. "

" The insistence that the commercialisation of the body is a fit subject for political discussion and intervention is well overdue. "

" We accept there's an emotional aspect to life. But we're not very developed in our ways of understanding it. "

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Emotional

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" Public intellectuals come from a range of areas and use their expertise to comment more widely than just their field. They want to make a contribution to public space, and they stick their necks out to do it. "

Susie Orbach

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Contribution

" The analyst's psyche operates as a kind of... something to hold on to while somebody's going through therapy, if they're deconstructing their own psyche, if that's cracking up in some way, or dissolving. "

" A wanted pregnancy as much as a dreaded pregnancy can play differently than all one's previous imaginings. "

" From a child's point of view, there is rarely a great time for parents to separate, even if there has been a lot of commotion and fighting. "

" Boys, young men, men of all ages are being captivated by the new visual grammar which pushes men to pout and posture. "

" Celebrity culture is something that pains me. "

" Our idea of a healthy body is so destabilised that insecure people have come to bolster their own bodies by deeming others - those with fat bodies - less worthy, less capable and less employable. "

" I wish we could treat our bodies as the place we live from, rather than regard it as a place to be worked on, as though it were a disagreeable old kitchen in need of renovation and update. "

" In general, the Western body has become a global brand. "

" Beauty has been democratised. No longer the preserve of movie stars and models but available to all. But while the invitation to beauty is welcomed, it has become not so much an option as an imperative. "

" I've always felt very sympathetic from the first days of writing about women that, whatever the woman, whether she is trying to be a woman in the conventional sense or breaking the boundaries, those struggles are quite difficult. "

" There are so many young women who tip over into being a facsimile: they don't really inhabit their lives or their bodies. "

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