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" The person most qualified to tell the tale of Kareem Abdul-Jabbar is the man himself, as gifted an intellect as he is an athlete. "
Rumaan Alam
Most
Athlete
Man
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" To be five years old is to be surprised by life. I'm amused by my children's awe at quotidian things - a toy helicopter, a bubble bath, the visible tentacles on a plate of calamari. And I'm envious of their ability to attain something I often can't: a state of transcendence induced by art. "
Rumaan Alam
Bubble
Old
Life
" By a considerable margin, my family's largest-ever financial expenditure was the adoption of our two sons. "
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Adoption
Margin
Financial
" Genre is a useful thing when organizing texts in a bookshop but immaterial to the particular exchange between writer and reader. "
Rumaan Alam
Writer
Useful
Exchange
" I didn't know, at 22, that regret is useless. If I could go back and change something - give myself some big break, pass along some secret information, reassure myself that most things would, in fact, work out - I don't think I would. "
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Go
Myself
Work
" Family is whatever you say it is. "
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Whatever
You
Say
" When my husband and I first became parents, we joked that our chubby baby was destined to grow into an Alex P. Keaton Reaganite - the most unlikely, and therefore hilarious, course for the child of an interracial gay couple in gentrifying Brooklyn. "
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Grow
Husband
Parents
" Among this country's enduring myths is that success is virtuous, while the wealth by which we measure success is incidental. We tell ourselves that money cannot buy happiness, but what is incontrovertible is that money buys stuff, and if stuff makes you happy, well, complete the syllogism. "
Rumaan Alam
Happiness
Happy
You
" I married the man I love when the state of California said I could. We made a family through adoption, as New York State said we could. From the outside, our family - two dads, two sons via adoption - seems like an experiment, but what family isn't an experiment? "
Rumaan Alam
Love
Man
Family
" For a long time, I thought that I was an enlightened parent by virtue of being an enlightened person. What a fool. "
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Time
Parent
Being
" Shopping for clothes is time consuming, it's tiring, and it can feel like a waste of an autumn afternoon. "
Rumaan Alam
Shopping
Clothes
Time
" There are probably some readers who don't want a great American writer to acknowledge that cleaning out the bottom drawer of the refrigerator has ever crossed their mind. "
Rumaan Alam
Mind
American
Cleaning
" I'm not black myself, but my sons are. "
Rumaan Alam
Sons
Myself
Black
" Kids are the ultimate trump card: a way to get out of co-op board meetings or lunch with a friend you don't want to see or your brother-in-law's set at a comedy club. It's fair to use your kids as an excuse to sidestep what you don't want to do; it's less fair to blame them for not being able to achieve what you do want to do. "
Rumaan Alam
Lunch
Friend
You
" Before the arrival of my first son, I gave up on the moribund business of magazine publishing, where I had long dreamed of a career, and went to work in advertising. That I could be paid great money to write was incredibly hard to believe. "
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Great
Business
Work
" There is a tendency to presume autobiography in fiction by women or minorities. Guys named Jonathan write universal stories, while there's this sense that everyone else is just fictionalizing their own small experiences. "
Rumaan Alam
Own
Women
Everyone
" Everyone on Twitter - everyone on the Internet - seems so damn certain. Brevity doesn't allow for nuance, and it's a nice complement to confidence. "
Rumaan Alam
Damn
Seems
Nice
" Every Christmas, I cook an elaborate Mexican dinner. "
Rumaan Alam
Mexican
Every
Dinner
" I'm a square. I always wanted the standard-issue American dream: beautiful home, loving husband, couple of kids. I met another square, and we got married; a year later, we had a baby; three years later, had another. "
Rumaan Alam
Beautiful
American Dream
Home
" Shot glasses make me think of youth and a mode of drinking and living that was never mine, even when I was the age for it. "
Rumaan Alam
Think
Glasses
Age
" It's my own personal hang-up, but I find adults who are picky eaters to be the worst. I don't mean food allergies or preferences: I mean picky eaters. We all know one, and they're impossible to go to lunch with or invite over for a dinner party. "
Rumaan Alam
Lunch
Dinner
Know
" When you are what we call a 'minority writer,' a writer of color, a writer of any kind of difference, there is some kind of presumption of autobiography in everything you produce. And I find that really maddening, and I resist that. "
Rumaan Alam
Color
Call
You
" Wishing there were more children's books like 'The Snowy Day' is a bit like wishing there were more grownup books like 'Anna Karenina.' There are only so many masterpieces out there. "
Rumaan Alam
Like
Children
Day
" I work when I'm alone, but I have children and a family and a job, so alone time is at a premium. "
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Alone
Family
Job
" In a strange way, Louise Erdrich is perhaps our least famous great American writer; she is not reclusive, but she is reticent, and her public appearances give the impression of a carefully controlled performance. But Erdrich has also shared many of her most intimate emotions and experiences, in some form, in her novels. "
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American
Famous
Great
" History is a story like any other, but black history is a story so devoid of logic that it frustrates the young reader. The young readers in my house, told of slavery and segregation, asked in disbelief, 'What? Why?' We - the parents of black children, the parents of all children - still need to tell that story. "
Rumaan Alam
History
Parents
Story
" Lindsay Hatton's novel 'Monterey Bay' so beautifully evokes the landscape of the titular locale, you'll feel transported to Northern California even if you're reading it on the bus on your morning commute. "
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Landscape
You
Morning
" If you've ever watched a television cartoon, you know that kids don't appreciate subtlety, though perhaps that's because they're not often offered it. "
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Television
Appreciate
Know
" A writer cannot be judged for his project, only its execution. "
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Execution
Cannot
Only
" I didn't know, at 22, that everything that happens to you, the good stuff as well as the less-good stuff, accrues and becomes your life. "
Rumaan Alam
Well
You
Life
" I grew up in the D.C. suburbs, and what I like about that place is that there's not a strong regional affect in the cultural imagination like there is in Dallas or San Francisco or New York City. You have a little more freedom as a novelist this way. The suburbs become a generic idea, and the place doesn't intrude into the narrative. "
Rumaan Alam
Imagination
Strong
New York