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" The thing I have to do as a writer, and that God permits me to do, is that I have to be willing to fail. "
Mary Karr
Writer
Fail
God
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" Childhood was terrifying for me. A kid has no control. You're three feet tall, flat broke, unemployed, and illiterate. Terror snaps you awake. You pay keen attention. People can just pick you up and move you and put you down. "
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