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" Today, I defined 'sentimental' to myself as a feeling about the idea of a feeling. "
Sheila Heti
Today
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" Writing, for me, when I'm writing in the first-person, is like a form of acting. So as I'm writing, the character or self I'm writing about and my whole self - when I began the book - become entwined. It's soon hard to tell them apart. The voice I'm trying to explore directs my own perceptions and thoughts. "
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