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" When everyone thinks they know you, it's hard not to be guarded. "
Erica Jong
Thinks
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" Feminism is teaching. I've gotten a lot of pleasure pushing younger writers that I've met and worked with. "
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" People always think that history proceeds in a straight line. It doesn't. Social attitudes don't change in a straight line. There's always a backlash against progressive ideas. "
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" My grandchildren are fabulous and funny. "
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" Friends love misery, in fact. Sometimes, especially if we are too lucky or too successful or too pretty, our misery is the only thing that endears us to our friends. "
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" I write slowly by hand. Publishing is effectively bankrupt for you unless you are Danielle Steele. It takes a year to write book and advances are going down or disappearing. "
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" Women are individuals in parenting, and why not? "
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" Every country gets the circus it deserves. Spain gets bullfights. Italy the Church. America Hollywood. "
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" I know so many women in their fifties, sixties and seventies who delight in being on their own. It's amazing. They don't see any stigma attached to it. We don't need a man to prove our identity anymore. "
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" He who can take advice is sometimes superior to him who can give it. "
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" Sadly, because of the enormous gap between rich and poor, some mothers can afford helpers, but many can't. Those who can would be kinder to refrain from criticizing other women. "
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" At certain historic moments, grandparents took on childrearing responsibilities. In many cultures, they still do. Chinese grandparents who are able to retire at 55 are seen all over Beijing bouncing grandbabies. In the United States, we can't afford to retire at 55. "
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" Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. "
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" As a past president of the Writers Guild, I think women shouldn't write for free. Maybe you have to do it for a time, to make a reputation, but I think the idea of giving your work away is the beginning of authors not being able to make a living. "
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Beginning
" Men have always detested women's gossip because they suspect the truth: their measurements are being taken and compared. "
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Men
Women
" Ken, my husband, just smelled like he belonged to me. I'm not talking about hygiene. I'm talking about when you hug him, he either feels like a member of your tribe or not. It's their scent. "
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" The problem with feminism in the second wave was that we fought so much among ourselves, and I think we did so much damage to the movement... and I think the next wave, the third wave, is women mentoring younger women and women helping younger women to enter the political process and the writing world. "
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" I believe that women should live for love, for motherhood and for intellect, and I believe we shouldn't have to choose. And I believe that's always been difficult for women, to express themselves intellectually, maternally, and passionately. "
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" No one ever found wisdom without also being a fool. Writers, alas, have to be fools in public, while the rest of the human race can cover its tracks. "
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" Perhaps all artists were, in a sense, housewives: tenders of the earth household. "
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" Sexism kind of predisposes us to see men's work as more important than women's, and it is a problem, I guess, as writers, we have to change. "
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" I think professionalism is important, and professionalism means you get paid. "
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" Jealousy is all the fun you think they had. "
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" Where is Hollywood located? Chiefly between the ears. In that part of the American brain lately vacated by God. "
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" We all parent the best we can. Being human, we're ambivalent. We want perfection for our babies, but we also need sleep. "
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" I don't think that I had any idea that 'Fear of Flying' would become a part of the culture. I had no idea that it would go all over the world and be published in Chinese and Serbo-Croat and so on. "
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" I've never been able to control my public image. "
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" Poetry is what we turn to in the most emotional moments of our life - when a beloved friend dies, when a baby is born or when we fall in love. "
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" Women are not the richer sex. Women are not equal in society. "
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" I'm interested in what happens to people when they get into that publicity machine. We tend to think things have changed, but there's still a deep sexism underlying the way women are treated publicly. "
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