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" When I look at the list of my favorite works, writers who are women do tend to outnumber writers who are men for whatever reason. "
Rumaan Alam
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" The cultural conversation around privilege has grown vibrant enough that the ultimate privilege is to just ignore it altogether. Some decry this conversation as pernicious. I don't agree. "
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Enough
" Contemporary families can be made in many ways. You might step up when relatives or friends are unable to meet their obligation to their children. You might marry someone who is already a parent. Or you might, as in my case, yearn to create a family and decide to adopt. "
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Step
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" Among this country's enduring myths is that success is virtuous, while the wealth by which we measure success is incidental. We tell ourselves that money cannot buy happiness, but what is incontrovertible is that money buys stuff, and if stuff makes you happy, well, complete the syllogism. "
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You
" Instead of a passion for the Yankees or fly-fishing or birding, I want to pass on to my sons a love of books, music, and art. I accept that this is partly about the gratification of my own ego, but it's also one of the only ways I know of making a rich life. That's what we all want for our progeny. "
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Ego
Passion
" Years ago, I worked at a fashion magazine. I was the lowest man on the totem pole, one of the only men on that particular pole: a little brother with a dozen older sisters whose grace and glamour I so admired. "
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Years
Man
Men
" Every Christmas, I cook an elaborate Mexican dinner. "
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Mexican
Every
Dinner
" When you are what we call a 'minority writer,' a writer of color, a writer of any kind of difference, there is some kind of presumption of autobiography in everything you produce. And I find that really maddening, and I resist that. "
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Color
Call
You
" Fashion has underscored the interchangeability of men for a long time, maybe from the outset. "
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Fashion
Long
Time
" By a considerable margin, my family's largest-ever financial expenditure was the adoption of our two sons. "
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Adoption
Margin
Financial
" The culture looms much larger than you do as a parent, and one can hardly rely on the culture to impart the lesson that womanhood is valuable. "
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You
Culture
Lesson
" I reject the notion that one should feel guilty about what you don't know. "
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About
Guilty
Know
" Blackness, any sort of difference, is not a burden. Relegating blackness or other sorts of difference to serious books that explicitly engage with issues creates a context in which it can seem like one. "
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Like
Difference
Burden
" Lindsay Hatton's novel 'Monterey Bay' so beautifully evokes the landscape of the titular locale, you'll feel transported to Northern California even if you're reading it on the bus on your morning commute. "
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Landscape
You
Morning
" I am not anti-Internet, and I don't think smart phones are a social ill. "
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Am
Think
Social
" Some writers are prolific; some are shape-shifters. It's rare and intimidating to encounter one who is both. "
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Encounter
Who
Some
" I work when I'm alone, but I have children and a family and a job, so alone time is at a premium. "
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Alone
Family
Job
" Shot glasses make me think of youth and a mode of drinking and living that was never mine, even when I was the age for it. "
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Think
Glasses
Age
" I know I've had a charmed experience of being a parent, with healthy kids, a helpful partner, access to good day care, and great public schools. "
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Good
Great
Good Day
" Fashion is about fantasy. "
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Fashion
About
Fantasy
" Children's books deal in idealized worlds, so they're a document of how our notion of ideal worlds has changed over time. "
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Books
Time
Over
" Baking is a matter of precision and timing, but I just make things up as I go. "
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Up
Baking
Timing
" Uzodinma Iweala is a fine and confident novelist. "
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Confident
Fine
Novelist
" Because the designers at Baby Gap and Crew Cuts have determined it would be cute if kids dressed like their dads, seemingly every American male between 2 and 52 dresses identically. "
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Cute
Baby
American
" That's part of fashion's promise: that a girlfriend or boyfriend or a promotion are just one tie or sweater or pair of shoes away. "
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Shoes
Sweater
Fashion
" Obama-as-dad is my favorite Obama. Obama-as-executive, with his stubborn faith in reasonableness in times absent of reason, presided over the country during its descent into madness. I find it a comfort that Obama-as-dad presided over a family that leaves the White House healthy and happy. "
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Faith
Comfort
Healthy
" Parenting advice is mostly useless because every family is uniquely its own; artistic advice is mostly useless because every artist works in their own way. Thus, figuring out how to balance the two has an intense specificity. "
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Balance
Parenting
Advice
" To be five years old is to be surprised by life. I'm amused by my children's awe at quotidian things - a toy helicopter, a bubble bath, the visible tentacles on a plate of calamari. And I'm envious of their ability to attain something I often can't: a state of transcendence induced by art. "
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Bubble
Old
Life
" Class is very, very fertile territory for American artists, and it has been for a long time. "
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Class
Long Time
Time
" Children are weird. I was going to say 'most children,' but I think this a rare universal law. "
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Going
Law
" I love fiction's ability to allow me to inhabit a wholly different life. "
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Me