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" Women are just as violently minded as men are, but with men, it's taken for granted. "
Gillian Flynn
Women
Taken For Granted
Men
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" The first time my mom read my very first book, she was like, 'I'm not gonna belabor this. It's not a big deal. But I have to ask the question: Is everything okay?' "
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" Writing has certainly helped me explore about 20,000 versions of my authentic self. I suppose that's what most writers discover if they write long enough: there are a lot of selves roaming around in there. "
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" I can't think of anything more crushing than slowly, over time, realizing exactly how wrong you were about someone. "
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" I'm not much of a procedural person. That's not what I'm interested in. "
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" Women shouldn't be expected to only play nurturing, kind caretakers. "
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" For me, suspense is always harder and better than going for the quick, outright scare. "
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" I find, the older I get, the more surprised I am about how hesitant people are to say what they really want, what they really dream about, what really drives them. It's as if sometimes we're sort of embarrassed, as we get older, to be transparent about that. But you save so much time if you're transparent about what you want. "
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" In college, I discovered the Joyce Carol Oates short story 'Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?' which is definitely one of the most incredibly unnerving, frightening short stories ever written. "
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" I could not have written a novel if I hadn't been a journalist first, because it taught me that there's no muse that's going to come down and bestow upon you the mood to write. You just have to do it. I'm definitely not precious. "
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" I've always had a fondness for the Gothic. That's what kind of stories attract me: Why do people do bad things? "
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" I want books to give me insight into the way people's brains work and hearts work, and that's what engages me. "
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" My first job had me miscast as a bubbly shopgirl; I was pathologically shy and, thus, tended to replace human speech with excessive head gestures. It was like being waited on by Harpo Marx. "
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" The best crime reporters don't mind charging in - but they also know how to do it as decent human beings. "
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" The midwest is great because it hasn't been entirely claimed. There's more room to write about it; it's harder to write about New York, because even if you've never been there, you think you know what it's like. To do it in any sort of fresh way is trickier. "
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" Ever since I was a child, I've been a huge comic and graphic novel fan, but I've never tried writing one before. "
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" I do spend - I feel like I spend about my first 20 minutes at any cocktail party convincing people that I'm not going to harm them in some way. "
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" I watched 'Psycho' a million times. "
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" I liked the idea of a whodunit revolving around a marriage. "
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" Even good characters have their dark sides, and I think it is important that women aren't seen as innately good. "
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" My favorite game was one I invented with my cousins called Mean Aunt Rosie, where I was a deranged maiden aunt who chased them around the house. "
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" I think women are very ambidextrous. We don't think twice about reading a book or a movie starring guys. But for guys, it's, like, 'Oh my God, that's a woman thing.' So with my son, I very carefully portion out the female heroes and characters to make sure he's getting an equal amount. "
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" Kansas City is truly an awesome town. "
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" I've always read in order to figure out people more, and that includes bad people and good people. "
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" I have four or five ideas that just keep floating around and I want to kind of just let one - like a beautiful butterfly, let it land somewhere. "
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" One of my biggest peeves is when the writer hasn't given you enough information to figure everything out. You should be able to go back to the beginning of 'Gone Girl,' after you've already read it and you know everything, and say, 'Check - check - yes, she gave us that information.' "
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" Some of the most disturbing, sick relationships I've witnessed are between long-time friends, and especially mothers and daughters. "
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" Books and movies are kind of my two great loves. I don't have too many other actual hobbies. That's pretty much it. "
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" I think that women really entwine with the people that they become close to in a way that men don't - and so, when they are forced to disentwine, you can't remove the vines without doing some damage. "
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