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" After a man falls madly in love, he no longer cares how old she is. "
Love
Old
Cares
" A hundred years ago, if you had a child out of marriage, you'd be a social disgrace. Today women feel comfortable enough economically and culturally to bring up a child without a recognized commitment from a man. "
Child
You
Marriage
" Almost always, when I'm on TV, the producers who call me, who negotiate what we're going to say, is a woman. "
Woman
Almost
Always
" Along with our many human propensities, we evolved a huge cerebral cortex with which we make decisions. "
Human
Many
Along
" A lot of people have been romantically in love with somebody who they feel wasn't appropriate to marry. "
Who
Feel
Love
" A lot of people head into courtship looking for fireworks. Don't pass up a chance by dumping someone after a first date because you don't feel the fireworks. The fireworks can happen at any time and be maintained. "
You
Chance
Feel
" Anthropologists have found evidence of romantic love in 170 societies. They've never found a society that did not have it. "
Society
Romantic
Evidence
" Any kind of novelty or excitement drives up dopamine in the brain, and dopamine is associated with romantic love. "
Excitement
Love
Romantic
" Any time you choose not to hide your tattoo, you're limiting your social sphere, because they're not popular in big business. "
Time
Choose
Business
" A Rolex watch or an expensive car are the things guys often use to show status, wealth, and basic desirability. "
Watch
Show
Car
" As a group, anthropologists are not too fond of people who work in the business world. "
Work
World
People
" As social animals, we need to exchange juicy tales about someone - to connect with one another. For millions of years our forebears must have sat around the campfire, whispering about everyone they knew. "
Everyone
Years
Someone
" As societies continue to loosen their standards regarding what is appropriate female and male behavior, I think we are going to realize we have not only underestimated women, but also men. "
Behavior
Men
Realize
" As women in industrial societies join the paid workforce, they gain the economic means to depart unhappy marriages more easily. "
Women
Unhappy
Economic
" At first I assumed hate was the opposite of love. But it isn't. The opposite of love is indifference. "
First
Love Is
Love
" A woman of 40 or 50 or 60 can take estrogen replacements, get facelifts, spend her money in bars. "
Her
Woman
Money
" A woman will toss her head and a man will say, 'Oh she's trying to pick me up,' when in fact she's not doing that at all. So, women actually have to be a little careful with what they do, because men will pick up things that they didn't mean. "
Man
Men
Doing
" Barriers tend to intensify romance. It's called the 'Romeo and Juliet effect.' I call it 'frustration attraction.' "
Barriers
Romance
Call
" Blushing is thought to be linked to increased levels of norepinephrine in the brain, which may be associated with romantic feelings. It signals that we are interested and excited, which is attractive to men. "
Thought
Romantic
Feelings
" Both sexes like the exercise and challenge of sports, but for men it's also a basic display behavior for impressing and winning a mate. "
Challenge
Like
Men
" Despite the myth that men are less committed, they are predisposed to desire marriage. "
Men
Desire
Myth
" Every time you cuddle with your children, you're likely to be driving down your testosterone. "
Time
Driving
You
" Experiences shape the brain, but the brain shapes the way we view experiences, too. "
View
Shape
Experiences
" For men, being too put-together implies femininity. "
Being
Femininity
Implies
" For so many generations, a woman's only career path was to marry well and to marry up. Those days have changed. "
Career
Days
Marry
" From my studies of genetics and neuroscience I have come to believe that people fall into four broad personality types - each influenced by a different brain chemical: I call them the Explorer, Builder, Director, and Negotiator. "
Fall
Four
People
" Games are the way we keep romance alive. They're based in human hardwiring. Playing hard-to-get or leaving a little to the imagination allows the woman to be wooed and appreciated and the man to be challenged and intrigued. "
Woman
Leaving
Imagination
" Globalization requires taking a broad contextual and long-term view. "
Taking
View
Globalization
" Good-looking people are always looking for other good-looking people. "
People
Always
Good-Looking
" Hair that gleams can send a clear sign that you're young and in your prime, whatever your actual age. "
Clear
Young
You
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