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" For men, being too put-together implies femininity. "
Helen Fisher
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" Today, American women bear an average of 2.2 children that live to adulthood. Across most of Europe, women bear even fewer young. "
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" A hundred years ago, if you had a child out of marriage, you'd be a social disgrace. Today women feel comfortable enough economically and culturally to bring up a child without a recognized commitment from a man. "
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