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" As disabled people, we are taught from a young age that those who are attracted to us are to be regarded with suspicion. "
Stella Young
People
Who
Us
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" I really love filling out forms - quite fortuitous, really, given that as one of Australia's 4 million-ish disabled people, ticking boxes and recording my life for other people is what I've spent a fair chunk of my time doing. "
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" We fill our lives with all sorts of things that make it easier for us to get along in the world: wheelchairs, crutches, grabber sticks, hearing aids, canes, guide dogs, modified vehicles, ramps, as well as other kinds of services and supports. Disability does not necessarily mean dependence on other people. "
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World
People
" As a wheelchair user, I am utterly obsessed with toilets, and all my friends know it. A simple invitation to the pub is consistently followed by, 'Do you know if they have an accessible toilet?' "
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Toilet
Friends
You
" My parents didn't know what to do with me, so they just pretended I was normal, and that worked out quite well for me. "
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Normal
Me
Know
" I'm a full-time wheelchair user. And yet, given the right circumstances, I am able to work. "
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Circumstances
Able
Work
" My mother loves to remind me that about the age of four, I made a somewhat formal announcement that I was going to be a plumber when I grew up. "
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Up
Mother
Plumber
" The thing about living with any disability is that you adapt; you do what works for you. "
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Disability
About
Adapt
" The battle to find a workplace that's wheelchair accessible is a feat in itself, let alone an employer who's going to be cool about employing someone with a disability in a job you actually want to do. "
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Cool
Disability
Job
" I grew up in a very small country town in Victoria. I had a very normal, low-key kind of upbringing. I went to school, I hung out with my friends, I fought with my younger sisters. It was all very normal. "
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Friends
School
Small
" We often hear that people mean well: that so many just don't how to interact with people with disabilities. They're unsure of the 'right' reaction, so they default to condescension that makes them feel better in the face of their discomfort. "
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People
Right
Mean
" Personally, I like a generous side of wheelchair access with my cities. "
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Generous
Like
Side
" When patronised, I'm unfortunately more flight than fight. Perhaps it's because I actually feel quite wounded. "
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Because
Than
More
" I don't generally talk about medical terms when I discuss my position as a disabled person. I take a social rather than medical approach to disability, and so long Latin names for congenital conditions are not relevant. "
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Long
Medical
Disability
" By far, the most disabling thing in my life is the physical environment. It dictates what I can and can't do every day. "
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My Life
Life
I Can
" It is nothing short of baffling to me how a city like Melbourne, where I struggle to find accessible facilities on a very regular basis, could be considered the most livable city in the world. I suppose it all depends on what makes a city 'livable' for you. "
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You
City
Me
" Yooralla, like most disability service organisations, is full of good people who are passionate about the rights of people with disabilities. "
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Good
Good People
People
" The Paralympics have for too long been considered the poor cousin of the Olympics. It's always run after the main games and rarely gets anything like the media coverage. "
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Media
Poor
Run
" People are uncomfortable about disability, and so interactions can become unintentionally uncomfortable. "
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Uncomfortable
Disability
People
" It is a truth universally acknowledged that from puberty onwards, the female body is disgusting and unruly and must be tamed, trimmed and tinted to within an inch of its life before it can be allowed to roam freely in the public eye. "
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Eye
Within
Truth
" We are a society that treats people with disabilities with condescension and pity, not dignity and respect. "
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Dignity
People
Pity
" My everyday life in which I do exactly the same things as everyone else should not inspire people, and yet I am constantly congratulated by strangers for simply existing. "
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Inspire
People
Life
" Many of us, particularly those of us with disabilities who have faced persistent discrimination throughout our lives, not least when trying to find employment in the first place, take enormous pride in our hard-fought jobs and careers. "
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Trying
Place
Discrimination
" It's undeniable that what we are taught as a culture to believe about disability is at odds with traditional notions of masculinity. "
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Disability
Believe
Culture
" We think we know what it's all about; we think that disability is a really simple thing, and we don't expect to see disabled people in our daily lives. "
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People
Disability
Daily
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People
Disabilities
Part
" I let go of the notion of wanting someone to ignore the way I look in order to find me attractive, because really, what kind of relationship would that be? One where someone's only attracted to you because they're ignoring a fundamental part of you? No thanks. "
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Way
Me
Look
" From pink water bottles for breast cancer to dumping a bucket of ice water on your head for neuromuscular conditions, it seems we're bombarded by requests to be 'aware' of one thing or another. "
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Breast Cancer
Water
Pink
" If everyone's looking at me, I might as well say something interesting. "
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Everyone
Say
Me
" The problem for many people with disabilities is not that we are not able to work a certain number of hours a week. It's that no-one will let us. "
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Week
Us
Problem