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" I had really wanted adventure. At the time that I ran away, lots of kids ran away from home. It was something of a social phenomenon. "
Mary Gaitskill
Had
Time
Social
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" On the rare occasions when my mother perfumed herself, she was going out, and so I rarely smelled those special scents up close on her body, except during kisses goodbye. "
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Her
Goodbye
" I think that with the proliferation of writing programs, people tend to forget that you also have to get used to working alone, and you have to be your own support. "
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" People sometimes turn out to be almost the opposite of how they present. It isn't because they're trying to fool you or because they're hypocrites. It's because they badly want to be that thing, and so they'll try to be it. "
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You
Present
" I think that's the real reason, sometimes, that people talk about my stories as being scary, because if you compare what goes on in my stories to what goes on in popular movies and popular songs, it's very mild. "
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Sometimes
People
Movies
" I think a lot of writing, or a lot of young writers, especially, hold themselves back unnecessarily because they're so upset about the idea that they might be sentimental or so concerned about being criticized that way or even being that way that they just shy away from any strong expression or emotion. "
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Think
Upset
Writing
" A sad person who is so involved with his sadness that he mistakes it for reality will have a hard time seeing himself as anything but sad. For him, the sadness is not a feeling that he experiences - it is him. "
Mary Gaitskill
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" I wanted to communicate and connect. I simply didn't seem able to do it. "
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Able
Communicate
Connect
" Somebody once said to me, 'If you want to be understood, don't write fiction.' "
Mary Gaitskill
Want
Understood
Said
" I think people try to make the most of their time on Earth and also to 'fix' their time on Earth. "
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Think
People
" I loved to read and would read anything that roused my interest, whether it was below my age level or above it, even if I could barely make sense of it. "
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Sense
Level
Loved
" When looking out the window and watching the water becomes a drama, then literally everything is a drama. "
Mary Gaitskill
Watching
Drama
Looking
" I think once you write fiction, you put it out, and it can be interpreted in a variety of ways, some of which are going to be shocking to the writer. "
Mary Gaitskill
Variety
Write
You
" People say that if you talk too much about sex, you take away the mystery. I say, if you're somebody who likes to talk, talk all you want - it's not listening. You will never take away the mystery. "
Mary Gaitskill
You
Listening
Mystery
" Having watched television, I would kind of play the role or picture myself on a television show or something like that. That's maybe always been true of a certain type of kid, even before television maybe, but I think it's been amplified to an insane level. "
Mary Gaitskill
Think
Television
Picture
" Not being locked into one set of feelings, which you run the risk of mistaking for the truth, you have greater and more intense access to all feeling states, including those you would never choose to act out. "
Mary Gaitskill
Truth
Feeling
Feelings
" If anything is scary about my writing, it's that it's the product of a very particular vision and doesn't reference common speech that heavily. By 'common speech,' I don't mean language as much as an agreed-on way of seeing, or a shorthand. "
Mary Gaitskill
Writing
Language
Way
" Where I grew up, in the Detroit area, there was a really good station. Sometimes you would hear songs for the first time on the radio, and if a really special song came on, somebody would turn it up, and everybody would just stop talking. "
Mary Gaitskill
Good
Song
Special
" Something like riding a horse - which I've recently started doing - requires courage, especially for me, as I started out being actually scared of horses. "
Mary Gaitskill
Courage
Riding
Me
" Sometimes I write from the point of view of characters whom I would dislike as people, not as a perverse exercise, but because this cracks the story open and makes me see it in a way I would not see it naturally. "
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People
Me
Exercise
" Everyone says 'Anna Karenina' is about individual desire going against society, but I actually think the opposite is stronger: the way societal forces limit the expression of the individual. "
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Think
Desire
Stronger
" It's true that your environment influences how you write. "
Mary Gaitskill
Environment
How
Your
" I don't know if I can say exactly what I seek in books, but one of them would be to deepen and expand my understanding of the world. "
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I Can
World
Understanding
" My first and strongest memories about perfume come from childhood, from my mother, and they are a complex blend of her private and public selves. "
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Perfume
Childhood
Mother
" I remember back in the '90s, I used to feel criticized by women for not having children. Like there must be something wrong with me. "
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Feel
Remember
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" I don't think that the Internet creates feelings that aren't there, nor does it provide an outlet. On the contrary, what I have thought about things like computer games - what has disturbed me about them - is that they appear to stimulate feelings of aggression without providing any physical release. "
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Thought
Feelings
Think
" There is a sense in which we have - like, I go in to teach a class; I may be somewhat different than I would be talking to you, although it's related because it's public. I'm very different with my roommate or my lover or my cats. But I don't know if that means you're acting, really, if you're being truthful. "
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Talking
Know
Teach
" Between my hatred of mall shopping and my mother's firm ideas about how a girl should dress, my style choices were pretty unenthusiastic: plaid skirts or whatever empire-waisted thingamabob was on sale at Sears. "
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Dress
Girl
Style
" I found the world extraordinarily strange, having first left home at 15. "
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Strange
First
Found
" I didn't start thinking about what I wanted to do professionally until I was 17. I was a hippie, but I did write. "
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Write
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