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" I should say, one of the things about being a widow or a widower, you really, really need a sense of humor, because everything's going to fall apart. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Need
You
Fall
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Joyce Carol Oates
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" I write in longhand and assemble lots of notes, and then I try to collate them into a coherent chronology. It's like groping along in the dark. I like writing and find it challenging, but I don't find it easy. "
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" Yes, 'Black Girl/White Girl' might be described as a 'coming-of-age' novel, at least for the survivor Genna. It is also intended as a comment on race relations in America more generally: we are 'roommates' with one another, but how well do we know one another? "
Joyce Carol Oates
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America
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" My reputation for writing quickly and effortlessly notwithstanding, I am strongly in favor of intelligent, even fastidious revision, which is, or certainly should be, an art in itself. "
Joyce Carol Oates
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I Am
Revision
" We are stimulated to emotional response, not by works that confirm our sense of the world, but by works that challenge it. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Challenge
Sense
Our
" Criticism is, for me, like essay writing, a wonderful way of relaxation; it doesn't require a heightened and mediated voice, like prose fiction, but rather a calm, rational, even conversational voice. "
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" A good, sympathetic review is always a wonderful surprise. "
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Always
Surprise
" I would suggest the widow do things the husband used to do, so he seems to be there with you. You will feel like just going to bed. It's so wonderful, going to bed. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Will
Feel
You
" As a farm girl, even when I was quite young, I had my 'farm chores' - but I had time also to be alone, to explore the fields, woods and creek side. And to read. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Farm
Young
Woods
" Nothing is accidental in the universe - this is one of my Laws of Physics - except the entire universe itself, which is Pure Accident, pure divinity. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Physics
Nothing
Universe
" When I was very little, four or five, I did comic strip drawings, so my first novel had no words. I couldn't write and thought adult handwriting was a mysterious scribble. When I was 14, my grandmother gave me a typewriter and I started writing in a different way. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Mysterious
Writing
Words
" No, the thing is, we all love storytelling, and as a writer you get to tell stories all the time. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Love
Tell
Storytelling
" The relationship between parents and children, but especially between mothers and daughters, is tremendously powerful, scarcely to be comprehended in any rational way. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Way
Children
Parents
" Except that awards are competitive, which is a negative thing, they are wonderful for singling out deserving individuals and bringing their work to the attention of many potential readers who might otherwise have been totally unaware of them. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Work
Attention
Potential
" It seems disingenuous to ask a writer why she, or he, is writing about a violent subject when the world and history are filled with violence. "
Joyce Carol Oates
World
History
Violence
" Obviously the imagination is fueled by emotions beyond the control of the conscious mind. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Control
Emotions
Imagination
" In love there are two things - bodies and words. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Valentine's Day
Words
Two
" My own way of writing is very meditated and, despite my reputation, rather slow-moving. So I do spend a good deal of time contemplating endings. The final ending is usually arrived at simply by intuition. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Time
Ending
Good
" I don't read for amusement, I read for enlightenment. I do a lot of reviewing, so I have a steady assignment of reading. I'm also a judge for the Anisfield-Wolf Book Awards, which gives awards to literature and nonfiction. "
Joyce Carol Oates
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Reading
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" For some reason, voters can be brainwashed, and they vote sometimes against their own best interests, let alone voting against the interests of people who need them, like people who are disenfranchised and people who are poor and so forth. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Alone
Voting
Need
" Any kind of creative activity is likely to be stressful. The more anxiety, the more you feel that you are headed in the right direction. Easiness, relaxation, comfort - these are not conditions that usually accompany serious work. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Direction
Work
Creative
" Anyone who teaches knows that you don't really experience a text until you've taught it, in loving detail, with an intelligent and responsive class. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Class
Detail
You
" The great menace to the life of an industry is industrial self-complacency. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Industry
Industrial
Great
" If a book I've committed myself to review turns out to be 'disappointing' I make an effort to present it objectively to the reader, including a good number of excerpts from the text, so that the reader might form his or her own opinion independent of my own. "
Joyce Carol Oates
Effort
Own
Good