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" I showed up in October 1946, part of an early surge that would become a great nationwide baby boom. My sister Kathy was born a year later. "
Tim O'Brien
Sister
Baby
Great
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" For me, the way to approach a subject such as Vietnam is through storytelling. "
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" I live in my head all day long and the world is a little dreamy. "
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Live
" The goal, I suppose, any fiction writer has, no matter what your subject, is to hit the human heart and the tear ducts and the nape of the neck and to make a person feel something about the characters are going through and to experience the moral paradoxes and struggles of being human. "
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" It's one thing to say you're for the war; it's another thing to send your kid to war - your daughter or your son. "
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" In Iraq and Afghanistan, our soldiers signed up intentionally. That's a huge difference from the largely conscripted army of my era. "
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Era
Army
" With no draft, the only people who went to war were those who wanted to, or at least those who wanted to join the military. "
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Join
" Laughter does not deny pain. Laughter - like a wail - acknowledges and replies to pain. "
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Like
" Fiction is a lie that is told in the service of truth. "
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Fiction
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" I could feel my moral compass as a soldier, in danger of - I could feel the squeeze, the pressure of frustration and anger and fear combining on me... I felt the danger; I felt the squeeze of it. "
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Me
Fear
" Working as a journalist, I was always tempted to lie. I felt I could do dialogue better than the person I was interviewing. I felt I could lie better than Nixon and be more concise than some random person I was covering. "
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Random
Always
Better
" Stories can encourage us and embolden us to face ourselves and to feel. Stories can make us feel less alone. If we're reading a story that moves us, we can feel that emotion that I feel towards my father or mother or girlfriend. So they can give us late-night company. "
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Mother
Reading
" You don't have to be in Nam to be in Nam. "
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You
" Stories have a special way of putting us inside the people, inside the boots of the soldiers. You're absorbed in a way a documentary or nonfiction can't do for you. "
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You
Boots
People
" Love, as wonderful and horrible as it is, has at its center a kind of pitiful humor. "
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Love
Kind
Horrible
" Fiction, maybe art in general, is a tentative, uncertain enterprise; it's not science, it's an exploration, but you never find much in the way of answers. "
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Exploration
Find
You
" The wars don't end when you sign peace treaties or when the years go by. They will echo on until I'm gone and all the widows and orphans are gone. "
Tim O'Brien
Gone
Peace
You
" By telling stories, you objectify your own experience. You separate it from yourself. You pin down certain truths. "
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Down
Yourself
You
" At the bottom, all wars are the same because they involve death and maiming and wounding, and grieving mothers, fathers, sons and daughters. "
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Bottom
Death
Same
" The human life is all one thing, like a blade tracing loops on the ice: a little kid, a twenty-three-year-old infantry sergeant, a middle-aged writer knowing guilt and sorrow. "
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Knowing
Sorrow
Kid
" 'The Things They Carried' is labeled right inside the book as a work of fiction, but I did set out when I wrote the book to make it feel real... I use my own name, and I dedicated the book to characters in the book to give it the form of a war memoir. "
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War
My Own
Feel
" I think I'm a pretty moral guy, a very moral guy, but I'm not perfect. "
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Guy
Not Perfect
Think
" War is a fundamental aspect of human existence. It's good to know what war entails and what the human sacrifice is. "
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Existence
Good
Know
" Life is never all one thing. It bounces around. Certainly, my own life has. Look at Woody Allen's funny movies - all the humor comes out of sad stuff. Sometimes you have to laugh, no matter what life deals you. "
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Life
Funny
Sad
" I did not set out to write another novel. One day I sat down with the thought of trying my hand at a piece of nonfiction, a personal memoir of youth, but over the next several weeks, without intending it, the work began evolving into what has become 'Tomcat in Love.' "
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Youth
Day
Love
" Everyone acts stupid at some time in order to be loved. "
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Everyone
Time
" We tend to regard history as true and 'The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn' as untrue. That's always puzzled me. "
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Adventures
Always
History
" The world comes at me that way - comes at me in clumps of stuff, sometimes little vignettes and sometimes whole stories. And then the rest is erased by the internal filter that erases things for the same reason you'd forget swatting a mosquito. "
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Forget
Sometimes
You
" The word war itself has a kind of glazing abstraction to it that conjures up bombs and bullets and so on, whereas my goal is to try to, so much as I can, capture the heart and the stomach and the back of the throat of readers who can lie in bed at night and participate in a story. "
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Story
War
Goal
" After each of my books about the war has appeared, I thought it might be the last, but I've stopped saying that to myself. There are just too many stories left to tell - in fact, more all the time. "
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Myself
Saying
Tell
" When you're so close to material, it would be as if you had come out of a bad marriage. You would be so close to it that you would be paying attention to detail that may not mean a whole lot for the reader. "
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