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" I think it's a stereotype that soldiers don't talk, because my experience is that they will talk if they are met with empathy and no judgment. "
Mary Gauthier
Think
Soldiers
Experience
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" Fundamentally, our job as songwriters is to sit down and listen. "
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" There's a universal inside of me. So if I tell my story, you're going to see parts of your story in it. I don't know which parts, but we all overlap. We're all very much alike. "
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" I knew I had that Cajun heritage, that Acadian heritage; I just feel it. And my gut says Irish on the other side. Irish and French, that's what I feel. When you're young, it doesn't matter so much, but as you get older, I would suspect part of the ageing process is to wonder about your ancestors - who were they? What were their lives like? "
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" I spent my 18th birthday in jail. Charges were dropped as long as I promised never to return to the state of Kansas. My parents took me home to Louisiana. I lasted there a week. Then I ran away. "
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" I got sober at 27 and started writing around 30 and started playing music in public around 32, 33. "
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Started
" I think each veteran's soul has something that it needs to say. I know from my own personal traumas, it's very hard to know what that is. But when I'm watching someone else struggle, it's not as confusing for me, 'cause it's not my struggle, so I can help identify that. "
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" I have got my story. Adoptees rarely get our stories. We only know what we are told. I don't even have my story, really. My mother won't tell me. She won't tell me who my father is. She won't tell me the story of my birth. "
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Story
She
" I'm an old-fashioned folk singer. I stand in front of an audience with a guitar and a barstool. "
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Stand
Guitar
Front
" I teach songwriting a lot, and I always tell my students, 'You gotta write the little songs sometimes to get to the next big song in the chute.' You gotta write 'em to get to it. You never know what's going to be a little song or a big song. "
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Teach
Know
Never
" Songs have been my greatest teachers and continue to be really important in my life. "
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Life
Been
Important
" I don't play everything I write. I mean, everything I write is not that good. I bring out into the world the ones I think that are really worthy of an audience's attention. "
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World
Good
Play
" There's a lot of vulnerability in songs - I'm not talking about pop songs - from people that are in the art of songwriting more than the commercial enterprise of it. "
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More
Art
People
" Creating something beautiful out of pain helps ease the pain. So, that's kind of how I got to songwriting - quite honestly out of desperation. "
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Creating
Beautiful
Kind
" I think having near-death experiences, they sure made me free. "
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Free
Sure
Think
" I'm a traveler and a vagabond and an observer, and the songs come through that. And that's just the way it's going to be. "
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Just
Way
Going
" Soldiers are trained not to be vulnerable, but when they come home, they've got to learn it. "
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Soldiers
Got
Come
" When I first got sober, I hadn't read anything for six or seven years. I didn't have even that much focus. "
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Got
First
Much
" Being in recovery for a lot of years now, I've worked with a lot of people who've gotten sober and sat with a lot of folks who are suffering. Bearing witness is a really underrated thing; it's a big damn deal. "
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People
Recovery
Suffering
" I think Bob Dylan showed us that songs can rise to the level of literature, and he proved it over and over again. That's why they keep trying to get him a Nobel Prize for literature: because there is no Nobel Prize for songwriting. "
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" I feel as though I came to music with something to say. It wasn't like that when I was younger. I didn't have the ability to articulate what it was I wanted to say. "
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Younger
" I think, because of the kind of writer I am, I can't do it halfway. I can't do it without dedicating my entire life to it. I have to give it a hundred percent. "
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Writer
Life
Halfway
" What I was told is that I was born to a mother who was a Catholic, while her boyfriend was not. They couldn't get married unless they put me up for adoption. "
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Her
Mother
Me
" Once I got my life sorted and started to get healthy, then I was able to focus on writing. "
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Healthy
Writing
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" I'm a big fan of Lou Reed, and I do a lot of talking through songs. It's more effective with my vocal limitations and also more powerful to slightly sing sometimes. It depends on the emotion, but I'm never going to try to compete with great singers. "
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Talking
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" I've learned our soldiers are so much like everybody else. They're just put into an extreme situation. "
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Like
Just
Much
" I guess I find it easier to talk when I have a guitar in front of me. "
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Guitar
Find
Me
" If I write for beauty and truth, the songs will find their way to me. Then, it's the songs that speak to the audience, and they can become part of the tribe that is into what I do. "
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Audience
Truth
Speak
" People in Ireland take in the whole song. After a long history of great singers and songwriters and poets, they are able to consume the entire song - not just the external; they go inside. "
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History
Long
People
" I'm grateful to songwriting and recovery to bringing me to a place of peace. "
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" Ultimately, what I want is for my songs to outlive me: I want my songs to keep being played even after I'm gone. "
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