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" I think having near-death experiences, they sure made me free. "
Mary Gauthier
Free
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" I got interviewed by one writer who started with the line, 'Mary Gauthier is a woman who clearly doesn't care how she looks.' I do too. It's just that I'm not very good at it. "
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" I learn something every time I go to work with a veteran. Every single time. "
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" I got sober at 27 and started writing around 30 and started playing music in public around 32, 33. "
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" I love SongwritingWith:Soldiers. "
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" I think each veteran's soul has something that it needs to say. I know from my own personal traumas, it's very hard to know what that is. But when I'm watching someone else struggle, it's not as confusing for me, 'cause it's not my struggle, so I can help identify that. "
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" I think, because of the kind of writer I am, I can't do it halfway. I can't do it without dedicating my entire life to it. I have to give it a hundred percent. "
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" I don't ever want to tie a song in a little bow. Life doesn't work that way, and war doesn't ever work that way. "
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" A lot of time, if you spend too much time in Nashville, songwriters get caught up in charts and numbers and the music business politics. "
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" I try not to eat cakes, but sugar screams my name. "
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" Being in recovery for a lot of years now, I've worked with a lot of people who've gotten sober and sat with a lot of folks who are suffering. Bearing witness is a really underrated thing; it's a big damn deal. "
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" I'm a big fan of Lou Reed, and I do a lot of talking through songs. It's more effective with my vocal limitations and also more powerful to slightly sing sometimes. It depends on the emotion, but I'm never going to try to compete with great singers. "
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" The belief when your mother gives you away is that there's something deeply wrong. Mothers don't give babies away. There's something wrong with me, something unlovable, something seriously flawed in me. It's a fundamental thing; it's precognitive. You feel it rather than think it. How could you not? "
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" Ultimately, what I want is for my songs to outlive me: I want my songs to keep being played even after I'm gone. "
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Gone
Even
Me
" There's a universal inside of me. So if I tell my story, you're going to see parts of your story in it. I don't know which parts, but we all overlap. We're all very much alike. "
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" What I really like is this salted calamari - with jalapenos on top. "
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" When you see validation for a life's work and dedication, it's a beautiful day. "
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Work
Beautiful
" I've learned our soldiers are so much like everybody else. They're just put into an extreme situation. "
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Just
Much
" I felt my whole life like I didn't have a family, and I needed one. So I had to build one, and you build one with faith, hope, and the healing power of love - or you end up the 'Unabomber.' That's the choice. "
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Love
Life
Hope
" I don't know who my dad is. "
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Know
Dad
Who
" I keep seeing the headline on articles that says something like 'Mary Gauthier Helping Our Veterans.' It's troubling - and it's condescending. Whatever I'm doing as a songwriter to help them tell their stories, they're giving it back to me double, triple, quadruple. "
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" Melody's like tweezers that go into the infection and pull out the wounded part. You can almost not stay silent in the face of a melody that matches your emotion. You feel seen. "
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" I don't really write for catharsis; I get that kind of work done in therapy. "
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" I've always been drawn to the hard story, the trauma, because I think art can turn it around. "
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" Songs, especially lyrics, have always been really important to me. "
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" What I was told is that I was born to a mother who was a Catholic, while her boyfriend was not. They couldn't get married unless they put me up for adoption. "
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" Music and books, I think, were the two things I trusted the most as a child - songs and books. "
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" People in Ireland take in the whole song. After a long history of great singers and songwriters and poets, they are able to consume the entire song - not just the external; they go inside. "
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" I guess I find it easier to talk when I have a guitar in front of me. "
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