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" In the world I've lived in, gay marriage, for example, seems completely logical. And yet there are many people who don't live in that world. "
Claire Messud
Gay
Marriage
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" My tendencies are much more the Henry James thing, where we sit in silence at the table for three minutes, and our whole lives are changed because of a revelation that never quite happens but almost bubbles to the surface. "
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" For me, it was a formative experience reading Eliot when I was younger. 'The Waste Land,' in particular. "
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" I'm a big believer in the complex realities of young people's lives. "
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" Obama was the first president whose biography makes sense to me. He can walk into a room anywhere and find common ground with any person. "
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" For me, the watershed was Hurricane Katrina. If that didn't get people out on the streets, then what will? "
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" We live in a culture that wants to put a redemptive face on everything, so anger doesn't sit well with any of us. But I think women's anger sits less well than anything else. "
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" I'm not a writing group member, not a joiner in that way. I don't seek a wide swath of feedback. "
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" If I look at my make-up, Canada is a huge part of what I am. "
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" Women aren't supposed to want stuff. They're not supposed to have high emotions. "
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" We think that we know people from this constellation of points: 'I know that story. I know that girl. I've heard that story a thousand times.' But actually, you never know that story. "
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" If you're writing a thriller, and you don't make it compelling, then you've really not done your job. So it's easier for me not to set out with certain goals, and then I can't see them as unmet. It's like life generally: If I'm not aiming to be physically fit, then I'm not always thinking about being unfit. "
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" At university, my generation were ready to fight, but we didn't really have anything to fight for. "
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" In a globalised world, so many of us move around so much. You lose things, but you also gain things - or hope to gain them. "
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" Everybody's always living in fiction just as much as children, but the way our stories are faked is curtailed by all sorts of narratives we take into our own lives about what are the true narratives and what's not. "
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" Awards bolster your confidence in wonderful ways. But they aren't the world. "
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" Sometimes I think about all the hours spent making lunches, carting kids from one place to another, being up in the middle of the night taking temperatures. People who haven't had to do that have, say, read every last book up there from cover to cover and probably remember it. There are trade-offs. But more life is more life. "
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" You can't make a character do something they wouldn't do. "
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" For many of us, we set out thinking there will be time in the future, and then suddenly we find ourselves at a moment when we have to acknowledge that the future isn't infinite. "
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" A painting lets us know how somebody literally saw things. A piece of music is another language that transmits a whole wealth of emotion and wordless experience. But writing is special in the way at allows us to temporarily enter another person's world, to step outside the boundaries of our own time and space. "
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" I had a memory span about as long as the lines in a school play. "
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" My mother turned 40 in 1973. So in 1970 - when 'The Female Eunuch' came out and Ms. magazine was founded - my mom was 37 with two children, and she was just that little bit too old, and the circumstances of her life were set up in a certain way that for her to fulfill her ambitions and dreams, she would have had to break with the family. "
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" Obstruction can be caused by so many factors - perfectionism, distraction, faltering confidence, external demands and pressures. At some point, of course, you've got to push through it all if you're to write, and if you don't, or can't, you're sunk. "
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" As a kid, I used to tell all these stories. I remember meeting a childhood friend, and we were talking. We remembered that I had made up this story about going to Mars. And she looked at me and said, 'I didn't sleep for a week after that!' "
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" If it's unseemly and possibly dangerous for a man to be angry, it's totally unacceptable for a woman to be angry. "
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