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" It is true for my family and many others: Adoption has made us infinitely richer in the ways that matter most. "
Rumaan Alam
Us
Family
Matter
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" Obama-as-dad is my favorite Obama. Obama-as-executive, with his stubborn faith in reasonableness in times absent of reason, presided over the country during its descent into madness. I find it a comfort that Obama-as-dad presided over a family that leaves the White House healthy and happy. "
Rumaan Alam
Faith
Comfort
Healthy
" Everyone on Twitter - everyone on the Internet - seems so damn certain. Brevity doesn't allow for nuance, and it's a nice complement to confidence. "
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Damn
Seems
Nice
" Lindsay Hatton's novel 'Monterey Bay' so beautifully evokes the landscape of the titular locale, you'll feel transported to Northern California even if you're reading it on the bus on your morning commute. "
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Landscape
You
Morning
" I'm not black myself, but my sons are. "
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Sons
Myself
Black
" With respect to parenting, biological age is not, for men, the concern it is for women. "
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Respect
Parenting
Men
" You can't control what's going to happen to the book you're about to publish. "
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Control
Going
About
" I reject the notion that one should feel guilty about what you don't know. "
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About
Guilty
Know
" When I was somewhere between child and adult, my father left us. My first family broke apart, but this liberated me to create a new family as I pleased. "
Rumaan Alam
Family
New
Me
" Genre is a useful thing when organizing texts in a bookshop but immaterial to the particular exchange between writer and reader. "
Rumaan Alam
Writer
Useful
Exchange
" I have a theory that because my kitchen is small, you can't preheat an oven and deal with dough at the same time, although maybe it's just that I'm a bad baker. "
Rumaan Alam
Time
Bad
Same
" Before the arrival of my first son, I gave up on the moribund business of magazine publishing, where I had long dreamed of a career, and went to work in advertising. That I could be paid great money to write was incredibly hard to believe. "
Rumaan Alam
Great
Business
Work
" The person most qualified to tell the tale of Kareem Abdul-Jabbar is the man himself, as gifted an intellect as he is an athlete. "
Rumaan Alam
Most
Athlete
Man
" History is a story like any other, but black history is a story so devoid of logic that it frustrates the young reader. The young readers in my house, told of slavery and segregation, asked in disbelief, 'What? Why?' We - the parents of black children, the parents of all children - still need to tell that story. "
Rumaan Alam
History
Parents
Story
" We have all come from a woman in some fashion. "
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Some
Come
Fashion
" That's part of fashion's promise: that a girlfriend or boyfriend or a promotion are just one tie or sweater or pair of shoes away. "
Rumaan Alam
Shoes
Sweater
Fashion
" I mourn for the kind of dad I didn't have; I rue my first broken family while taking joy in the one that I've made. "
Rumaan Alam
Joy
Mourn
Kind
" Children are weird. I was going to say 'most children,' but I think this a rare universal law. "
Rumaan Alam
Children
Going
Law
" For a long time, I thought that I was an enlightened parent by virtue of being an enlightened person. What a fool. "
Rumaan Alam
Time
Parent
Being
" Fashion is about fantasy. "
Rumaan Alam
Fashion
About
Fantasy
" Men's fashion's tendency toward uniformity promises little fun, but at least it offers this: If I wear sweatpants and sneakers, I can pass as the American it's safest to be. "
Rumaan Alam
Men
Promises
American
" Vanity is a sensitive subject for gay men. "
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Subject
Sensitive
Men
" I love fiction's ability to allow me to inhabit a wholly different life. "
Rumaan Alam
Life
Ability
Me
" The cultural conversation around privilege has grown vibrant enough that the ultimate privilege is to just ignore it altogether. Some decry this conversation as pernicious. I don't agree. "
Rumaan Alam
Privilege
Conversation
Enough
" This tension between ambition and parenthood, that's not a reckoning that many men face. There are plenty of men who say, 'Oh, I need to be there for my kids, and I can't do x or y professionally,' but for the most part, that's a struggle that belongs to women in society. "
Rumaan Alam
Women
Men
Society
" I do think that I have a sensitivity to the depictions of maybe all minorities in literature. And I think that the experience of people who look like me is so rarely captured in big, mainstream American fiction that you tend to sort of empathize with any character of color who pops up. "
Rumaan Alam
Think
Experience
People
" I am not anti-Internet, and I don't think smart phones are a social ill. "
Rumaan Alam
Am
Think
Social
" If you've ever watched a television cartoon, you know that kids don't appreciate subtlety, though perhaps that's because they're not often offered it. "
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Television
Appreciate
Know
" Because the designers at Baby Gap and Crew Cuts have determined it would be cute if kids dressed like their dads, seemingly every American male between 2 and 52 dresses identically. "
Rumaan Alam
Cute
Baby
American
" It's not that a literature for children of color doesn't exist; it's that so much of the extant literature is lacking in the essential quality that makes literature for children so extraordinary a form: imagination. "
Rumaan Alam
Color
Imagination
Children
" I don't want the staggeringly wealthy Elton John and his family to represent the standard of gay fatherhood any more than straight people want the stunningly beautiful Angelina Jolie and her family to represent the standard of heterosexual parenthood. Stars are outliers; stars are exceptions. "
Rumaan Alam
People
Stars
Gay