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" It makes me proud not just to be a Canadian writer but to be a Canadian, to live in a country where we treat our writers like movie stars. "
Lynn Coady
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" You can't really go into TV thinking, 'Maybe I can make a few bucks doing this thing I'm only kind of interested in to support my one true love, which is prose fiction.' I think you have to love what you're doing to do it well. "
Lynn Coady
Love
Support
Think
" I'm no atheist - I'm lazy. I really do like hassle-free Sunday mornings. I have a problem with organized religion, so I've simply opted out. Live and let live, I figure. "
Lynn Coady
Live
Problem
Religion
" One does not become an atheist out of a desire for hassle-free Sunday mornings. People come to atheism because they have a problem with organized religion - usually a problem they consider to be of moral urgency. "
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Sunday
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" We allow ourselves to unclench when we're home with our families, which is one of the truly wonderful advantages of human intimacy. "
Lynn Coady
Home
Intimacy
Our
" While Person A might believe the kitchen counter provides a reasonable surface on which to place one's balled-up sweatsocks post-gym, Person B - about to cut up some vegetables on that same counter, perhaps for a meal intended to be shared with Person A - can only read the sockball as a message that says, 'Hi! I have contempt for you!' "
Lynn Coady
Believe
You
Vegetables
" There was a time when I thought dudes had friendship all figured out. The focus on eating things in front of giant screens, pretending to punch one another, competing over who can utter the grossest and most profane personal insults imaginable - this struck me as the very apex of human social exchange. "
Lynn Coady
Time
Focus
Friendship
" Sometimes I pine for the era of Miss Manners, when there were hard and fast rules dictating a well-bred individual's behaviour in any given situation. "
Lynn Coady
Sometimes
Rules
Hard
" When writing sex scenes, there is often no pleasing anyone, except perhaps the writer herself. "
Lynn Coady
Writing
Writer
Sex
" I think authors like me are always struggling with the idea that they should have a brand and a Facebook author page and they should get Twitter accounts. I don't know what to do with them. "
Lynn Coady
Always
Think
Page
" I would never have thought my collection of short stories would win the Giller. "
Lynn Coady
Win
Never
Short
" My dad was a real man's man, and so were my brothers, in a small town where hockey is king. It's a masculine culture. It made me really attentive to what it meant to be a guy. "
Lynn Coady
Culture
Small
Me
" There are people out there who genuinely love literature, who genuinely love to read and read widely, who will never like, or even necessarily get, my books. That was a hard one to swallow, to not feel slighted by. "
Lynn Coady
Literature
Feel
People
" I was always watching the boys and how they interacted. It comes with being a feminist, just somebody who thinks a lot about gender and how it plays out in society. "
Lynn Coady
Just
Society
Always
" We are all somebody's children, and when we're in pain, we regress, instinctively looking to our parents to make everything better. "
Lynn Coady
Parents
Better
Children
" Do not make the writer stand behind a podium. Anything but. A podium reeks of the lecture hall. A music stand, on the other hand, is nicely minimal and lends the writer - who usually needs all the help s/he can get - a musician's second-hand cool-factor. "
Lynn Coady
Stand
Behind
Hand
" I avoid writing about sex out of a certainty that no matter how grown up and matter-of-fact I might try to be, there is a snickering yet nun-terrorized 12-year-old-boy inside me who would at some point be certain to grab the reins in his hairy palms. "
Lynn Coady
Matter
Certainty
Me
" I went into the world confident my tea training would open many doors. And I did particularly well with the Irish and fellow Nova Scotians over 60. But this only got me so far. It took a long time to cultivate the tricks of easy social interaction. "
Lynn Coady
Me
World
Time
" The novel, as a genre, was once considered a diversion every bit as frivolous as Facebook, but over the years, we've managed to convince ourselves that reading fiction is as important to our mental digestion as fresh fruits and vegetables are to the processes that take place a little further down. "
Lynn Coady
Down
Reading
Place
" That's what fascinates me about these writers' retreats: You're in these small spaces with small groups of people, and all of the sudden, the spotlight is shining on you harder than it normally is. "
Lynn Coady
Small
Than
You
" It's kind of sad, the way we've turned the entertainment of reading into a kind of psychic broccoli - something to feel guilty about if you don't force it on your face-making children while dutifully consuming a few token florets yourself. "
Lynn Coady
Children
Reading
Sad
" In the late sixties, when revolution and upheaval were everywhere, feminists were ridiculed for focusing on housework. "
Lynn Coady
Revolution
Housework
Sixties
" Loneliness sucks. It's a slog. It feels wonderful and exhilarating when someone makes it go away. But love is a whole different ball game. "
Lynn Coady
Loneliness
Love Is
Someone
" Literary readings aren't going to shake their reputation as the added-fibre of our entertainment diet until the people who organize and participate in them snap out of this mentality. "
Lynn Coady
People
Reputation
Diet
" Never use dogs to symbolize anything. That is ridiculous. Always ensure that any dogs are just dogs; i.e., characters in the story who happen to be dogs. "
Lynn Coady
Never
Story
Always
" Something I've always written about is social expectations: that the eyes of the community are on you all the time, expecting you to line up with certain social norms, certain behaviours. Whenever you forgot about them, they'd be strongly reiterated to you, in no uncertain terms. "
Lynn Coady
Community
Time
Eyes
" I spent so many years in terror of 'making it legal' because the expression rang all too true - the wedding ritual struck me as nothing but a flowery front for the fulfilment of countless, tedious contracts and obligations. "
Lynn Coady
Years
Nothing
Legal
" We thought we'd name the magazine for the number of bridges within Edmonton's city limits. We thought this number was 18. Much later, we learned that the number is actually 21. But we didn't like the sound of that so much. "
Lynn Coady
Bridges
Thought
Name
" Dating, like almost every other male-female interaction in present-day society, is based on outmoded and unequal social roles and expectations. "
Lynn Coady
Society
Dating
Expectations
" I don't even like to cry in private. "
Lynn Coady
Cry
Like
Even
" When a man tells a woman there is no chance of a formal, committed, long-term relationship, the only self-respecting response is to take him at his word and move on. "
Lynn Coady
Man
Move On
Relationship