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" I've spent many hours of my life browsing in stores. At 21, I admired clothes I couldn't afford. At 30, I bought them. At 40, I sometimes go simply for the pleasure, of seeing what is new, of learning what counts as beautiful now. "

Rumaan Alam

Beautiful

Learning

Life

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Rumaan Alam

Myself

Writer

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Rumaan Alam

Power

Time

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Rumaan Alam

Life

Ability

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Rumaan Alam

Difference

Burden

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