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" Kissing is not just kissing. It is a major escalation or de-escalation point in a powerful process of mate choice. "
Helen Fisher
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" Natural beauty really entices men. They will tell you this time and time again, and studies consistently prove it. "
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" We are wired to find love. "
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" A woman of 40 or 50 or 60 can take estrogen replacements, get facelifts, spend her money in bars. "
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" Haiti is the poorest country in the western hemisphere; some say the poorest in the world. "
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" There were real reasons that you were attracted to somebody originally. The brain doesn't pick willy-nilly. Unless you part ways hating each other for some reason, that mechanism could get triggered again. You can literally fall in love again. "
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" There's every reason to think SSRIs blunt your ability to fall and stay in love. "
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" When chimps threaten, they open their mouth and show their teeth. It's a little like waving a knife in front of you. It's very primitive, and therefore bizarre. "
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" We spend our lives trying to get along with people so we can keep our jobs, keep our marriages together, so that we can raise our kids properly. "
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" In general, men are wired to notice obvious signs that convey interest in mating - a warm smile, for example - and ignore other subtleties, like if your lipstick is faded. "
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" People have often asked me whether what I know about love has spoiled it for me. And I just simply say, 'Hardly.' You can know every single ingredient in a piece of chocolate cake, and then when you sit down and eat that cake, you can still feel that joy. "
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