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" One good thing about being a woman is we haven't too many examples yet of what a genius looks like. "
Sheila Heti
Good
Being
Genius
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" You think you're writing the most important book, you think you're writing the most stupid book, and you never really know before it's done that it's going to be done. "
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" I don't wear shoes that are going to give me any pain. I just cannot do that. "
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" My feminism is just part of my being - a part of my understanding of the world. "
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" I don't think about the reader when I'm writing, but I do when I'm editing, of course. For instance, I self-consciously didn't want to do anything to increase the divide between mothers and nonmothers - I think that divide is so horrible and destructive and unnecessary. "
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Editing
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Want
" I really enjoyed the process of 'Women in Clothes,' but there's no way I would have done that again. It felt more like being an editor than a writer, and I longed to write again. "
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" I don't know what that line is between fiction and non-fiction that other people have in their minds, but to me, when I'm writing, it's just like whatever the next sentence should be is the next sentence. It's not this artificial division. "
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" A line drawn with love can make us as vulnerable as what the line depicts. "
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Us
Make
" I find that when I'm in a relationship, I'm just so 'in it,' you couldn't even call it an art; it's such embroilment. With a friendship, you can choose a little bit more how to behave. You can be guided more. "
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Find
" Laurie Simmons began showing her photographs in New York in the late '70s: black-and-white and then candy-colored scenarios with plastic dolls in 1950s-style domestic interiors. "
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New York
Black-And-White
Late
" I remember very vividly a little plaid dress on which my father sewed all these hanging beads, little horses and stuff. It was my favourite thing ever. I had it when I was four, and I kept it until I was 12, when I gave it to the little neighbour girl. For years, I regretted giving it to her, even though I had no use for it. "
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Girl
Giving
Remember
" A woman will always be made to feel like a criminal, whatever choice she makes, however hard she tries. Mothers feel like criminals. Non-mothers do, too. "
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Feel
She
Woman
" To me, something that's beautiful in terms of a book is something that lives inside the reader both as a discrete and complete thing, but also something that seeps out into their life and thoughts. "
Sheila Heti
Beautiful
Book
Life
" Everyone is their own kind of poet - you can't miss it when their words are written down. "
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You
Words
Own
" For me, a memoir is supposed to be understood as a representation of your life, whereas a novel is self-consciously symbolic. "
Sheila Heti
Your
Representation
Me
" If you want to write from life, you can't really write a story. People are always changing, and I think if we didn't look the same day-to-day, and our self weren't always in our body, would we even be the same? The continuity is in our bodies. "
Sheila Heti
Self
People
Life
" I just always try to respond to what I'm most interested in at the moment - that hasn't changed. "
Sheila Heti
Moment
Try
Respond
" Most fiction writers are driven to find their own 'voice,' but I am more interested in the voices of others. "
Sheila Heti
Own
Driven
Find
" When you're writing, I think a big part of writing comes out of an attempt to understand yourself. You're dealing with emotions and thoughts that are native to you. So that probably winds up in your characters. "
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You
Think
Thoughts
" There's something about a woman's life choices that invites commentary, whether it's been invited or not. "
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Been
Choices
Life
" There's so much anxiety about being understood - and being understood through what you wear. "
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Wear
Understood
Through
" Growing up, I never knew that Raffi turned down celebrity endorsements, TV shows, and specials and refused to make merchandise, but it makes sense given how I think about him: My memories are limited to his voice through the record player and the album covers I stared at. "
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Think
Memories
Voice
" I didn't wander into motherhood or nonmotherhood unconsciously, recklessly. I gave it due consideration. "
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Consideration
Gave
Motherhood
" For myself, I feel more natural writing stories or novels than writing plays. I feel more like myself, like I can express myself better, and like I have a greater clarity about what I want to do. "
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Myself
Writing
" The main problem I've always had with fashion media is that women are encouraged to copy other women. "
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Copy
Problem
Women
" Our delusions of omniscience play a role in our ideas of not only what we want but also what we want to escape. "
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Only
Ideas
" As a journalist, you don't tend to interview people with a view to becoming their friend. You can't expect that. It's not professional. "
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Professional
You
" Women, post-menopause, go back to how they were before they started menstruating, and there's this great freedom in a woman's life when she reaches the end of that reproductive cycle, and that most women come into their own strength, the same strength they had as a girl. "
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Strength
Life
Freedom
" We're so sure of what our unlived lives would have been like that we feel guilty for not living them - for not living up to our potential. "
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Guilty
Potential
Living
" No child, through her own will, can pull a mother out of her suffering, and as an adult, I have been very busy. "
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Mother
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Own
" You don't go to tarot readers or psychics when everything's going well. It's always evidence of rock-bottom. "
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