Home
Authors
Tags
App
Get QuoteDark Inspirational Quotes App
" For me, a memoir is supposed to be understood as a representation of your life, whereas a novel is self-consciously symbolic. "
Sheila Heti
Your
Representation
Me
Related Quotes:
" The reason I write is because I have questions. What I don't want is for people to forget that I'm a novelist and think I'm a sociologist or something. I don't want to feel trapped into a corner where I don't belong. "
Sheila Heti
People
Feel
Forget
" I feel like every single time I've published a book, there's some little light in me that goes out. I've seen the way people can misunderstand or misinterpret things, if not maliciously, then without a lot of sensitivity. "
Sheila Heti
Me
People
Time
" As a journalist, you don't tend to interview people with a view to becoming their friend. You can't expect that. It's not professional. "
Sheila Heti
Friend
Professional
You
" The thing I worry about is, what happens when your talent flees? Because you see that with writers sometimes: they start writing these awful books. And there's something sort of horrifying about it. "
Sheila Heti
See
You
Writing
" I wished to have the time to put together a world view, but there was never enough time, and also, those who had it seemed to have had it from a very young age; they didn't begin at forty. "
Sheila Heti
Enough
Time
Together
" I remember going over proofs of this book - my first book - back in 2001, in a bar in Toronto called the 'Victory Cafe', and thinking sadly to myself, 'This is a very good manuscript but not a very good book.' I don't know what I meant by that, but I was pretty heartbroken and sure it was true. "
Sheila Heti
Book
Victory
Thinking
" I'm happy that I wrote 'How Should a Person Be?' and I wouldn't have written that exact book if we had just done the play. So much of the book is about the anxiety of failure - the failure of the play and the failure of the divorce and the failure of not feeling like a good person. "
Sheila Heti
Good
Book
Anxiety
" There's something threatening about a woman who is not occupied with children... What sort of trouble will she make? "
Sheila Heti
Children
Will
Who
" I wanted to talk to a lot of women about their experiences along the path to motherhood - or along the path to not being a mother. "
Sheila Heti
Women
Motherhood
Mother
" People don't know who I am from my clothes, and they don't need to. "
Sheila Heti
Need
People
I Am
" In my experience, women who are taken seriously take themselves seriously. It's not what you wear. "
Sheila Heti
Seriously
You
Women
" The main problem I've always had with fashion media is that women are encouraged to copy other women. "
Sheila Heti
Copy
Problem
Women
" If you want to write from life, you can't really write a story. People are always changing, and I think if we didn't look the same day-to-day, and our self weren't always in our body, would we even be the same? The continuity is in our bodies. "
Sheila Heti
Self
People
Life
" Laurie Simmons began showing her photographs in New York in the late '70s: black-and-white and then candy-colored scenarios with plastic dolls in 1950s-style domestic interiors. "
Sheila Heti
New York
Black-And-White
Late
" Today, I defined 'sentimental' to myself as a feeling about the idea of a feeling. "
Sheila Heti
Today
Sentimental
Feeling
" I think I prefer writing books because the work of art begins and ends with you - it's easier to know if you're doing it right, as opposed to writing a play and then waiting around for somebody else to complete it. "
Sheila Heti
Think
Know
Writing
" One good thing about being a woman is we haven't too many examples yet of what a genius looks like. "
Sheila Heti
Good
Being
Genius
" I remember where I was when I wrote that story, 'Mermaid in a Jar.' I was at a boyfriend's, and he was the only boy I ever dated who was rich, and his parents had a ski chalet, and I just didn't know how to break up with him, so I decided I would be celibate. "
Sheila Heti
Know
Up
Story
" A daughter is more difficult than a rose. "
Sheila Heti
Than
Difficult
More
" To me, something that's beautiful in terms of a book is something that lives inside the reader both as a discrete and complete thing, but also something that seeps out into their life and thoughts. "
Sheila Heti
Beautiful
Book
Life
" Raffi is arguably the world's most famous children's singer. "
Sheila Heti
Singer
World
Most
" Writing, for me, when I'm writing in the first-person, is like a form of acting. So as I'm writing, the character or self I'm writing about and my whole self - when I began the book - become entwined. It's soon hard to tell them apart. The voice I'm trying to explore directs my own perceptions and thoughts. "
Sheila Heti
Thoughts
Character
Writing
" Only in our failures are we absolutely alone. Only in the pursuit of failure can a person really be free. Losers may be the avant garde of the modern age. "
Sheila Heti
Only
Failure
Free
" The thing to do when you're feeling ambivalent is to wait. "
Sheila Heti
Ambivalent
Wait
You
" Sometimes you can't write a novel for weeks and weeks, but it's good for your self-esteem to work on something else. "
Sheila Heti
Self-Esteem
You
Work
" It took me five or six years to write 'How Should a Person Be?' and there were many times when I felt discouraged. "
Sheila Heti
Years
Discouraged
Me
" Just because you are alive does not mean you have to give life. "
Sheila Heti
Alive
You
Just Because
" I didn't study English literature - I studied philosophy at university - so Kierkegaard, Nietzsche - these people are among the most important writers to me. So my interest is in the big questions more than it is in storytelling. "
Sheila Heti
Important
Study
Me
" A woman will always be made to feel like a criminal, whatever choice she makes, however hard she tries. Mothers feel like criminals. Non-mothers do, too. "
Sheila Heti
Feel
She
Woman
" I think that part of the reason I like collaboration so much is because it's something unexpected coming in, and you have to stretch yourself to absorb it. "
Sheila Heti
Yourself
Collaboration
Think