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" Part of me always felt like the other, the outsider, the observer. My father had two sons with his second wife, who I didn't meet until my late 20s. I was always on the periphery. In Madrid, I was the only Turk in a very international school, so I had to start thinking about identity. All these things affected me. "

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" Writing is a tribute to solitude. It is choosing introversion over extroversion, lonely hours/days/weeks/years over fun and sociability. "

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" For me, coming from the women's movement, politics is not just about parties and parliament. There is politics in our private space and in gender relations as well. Wherever there's power, there's politics. "

Elif Safak

Well

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" I write as if I were drunk. It is a process of intuition rather than placing myself above my story like a puppeteer pulling strings. For me, it's a scary, chaotic process over which I have little control. Words demand other words, characters resist me. "

" When societies go backwards and slide into authoritarianism, nationalism, and tribalism, machismo and sexism are also emboldened. "

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" God is the biggest storyteller, and when we create stories, we connect with him and with each other across cultural, religious and gender boundaries. "

" I spent my entire childhood observing people. I still do. "

" Politicians and leaders who see the media as 'the enemy within' divide society into two clashing cultural camps. Populist demagogues benefit from binary oppositions. "

" I was in Madrid as a young girl and a teenager. I'll never forget when I went to the Prado Museum for the first time and saw the paintings of Goya. They had such a big impact on me. "

" If you are a writer from Turkey, Pakistan, Nigeria, Egypt, you don't have the luxury of being apolitical. You can't say, 'That's politics. I'm just doing my work.' "

" When I was 10 years old, we moved to Spain with my mother. I learned Spanish before I learned English. But the English language stayed with me. "

" Art and literature should help us to get out of our mental cocoons. "

Elif Safak

Help

Literature

" I love commuting between languages just like I love commuting between cultures and cities. "

Elif Safak

Love

Commuting

" I write with humour about sadness, to introduce an element of sweet to the sour, a bit like Turkish food. "

Elif Safak

Sour

Sweet

" I like to question cultural biases wherever I go, and I question Islamophobia as much as I question anti-western sentiment because I think all extremist ideologies are very similar. "

" I find families intriguing, perhaps because I did not grow up in one. I was raised by a feminist, independent, single mother, a divorcee. "

" When I looked at people like Goya and Pina Bausch, the message I got was just do what you're passionate about. Don't think about what other people are going to say or how they're going to receive your work. Just be your work. "

" English, for me, is an acquired language. I started with English at the age of 10. At the time, it was my third language. "

" If there is no love between the author and the story, there is no love between the reader and the story. "

" For me, writing stories is one way of feeling connected to the universe and God. "

Elif Safak

God

Feeling

" There are two different ways of writing a novel. The first I call the traditional father way, when the novelist slightly situates himself or herself above the text and knows what each and every character is going to do. It's a bit like engineering. I've never felt close to that tradition. I like the second way, which relies a bit more on intuition. "

" I write my novels in English first; then they are translated into Turkish by professional translators. Then I take their translation and rewrite. So basically, I write the same novel twice. "

" I realized over the years if I'm writing about humor, irony, satire, I much prefer to do that in English. And if there is sorrow, melancholy, longing, I much prefer to do that in Turkish. Each language has its own strength to me, and I feel connected and attached to both Turkish and English. I dream in more than one language. "

" Books change us. Books save us. I know this because it happened to me. Books saved me. So, I do believe through stories we can learn to change, we can learn to empathize and be more connected with the universe and with humanity. "

Elif Safak

Know

Humanity

" My readers are surprisingly mixed. I have conservative readers - for instance, women with headscarves - but also many liberal, leftist, feminist, nihilist, environmentalist, and secularist readers. Next to those are mystics, agnostics, Kurds, Turks, Alevis, Sunnis, gays, housewives, and businesswomen. "

Elif Safak

Liberal

Women

" Writing in another language gives me an additional freedom, an additional way of thinking. It's a challenge, but I like the challenge. "

" We need a dose of doubt and a dose of faith, to challenge each other. "

" Turkey is a complex country. Most readers are women, of all generations, and they are passionate about books. However, the written culture is mostly patriarchal. In general, men write; women read. I would like to see this pattern changing. More women should write novels, poems, plays, and hopefully, more men will read fiction. "

" The only way to learn writing is by writing. Talent, as charming as it sounds, amounts to no more than 12 per cent of the process. Work is 80 per cent. The remaining 8 per cent is 'luck' or 'zeitgeist' - in short, things that are not in our hands. "

" Bad writing is like a bad relationship. Don't be addicted to it just because you are familiar with its ways. Let go. "

Elif Safak

You

Bad

" With 'The Forty Rules of Love,' I wanted to write a love story. But I wanted a love story with a spiritual dimension. For me, that took me to Rumi. And from Rumi, I went to Shams of Tabriz. That's how the story took shape. "

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Story

Love