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" The older I get, the more the lying, the losing touch with your true thoughts and feelings, and the compromises required to fit in seem not worth the effort. It's my one go on Earth; why spend any more of it conforming to other people's rules and ideals? "

Viv Albertine

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" I've burned all my bridges for the sake of getting as near as I can to the truth. And after years of searching for the truth, you find that that's all you can bear. The truth and nothing but the truth. "

" I can't stand these autobiographies that start with, you know, 'I was born in Acton, and I went to such and such a school.' They just bore me. "

Viv Albertine

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