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" There is a theme that runs through my work, and that is: the toxic property of keeping secrets. "

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" If people choose to live their life in a way that does not confront the more troubling aspects of their experience, that's fine, if it works for them. But it will probably make them uncomfortable if they come up against somebody like me. So they just shouldn't! They shouldn't read my work! "

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" Many women my age have known the experience of giving up crucial parts of themselves to please the man they love. "

" If a man wishes to truly not be written about, he would do well not to write letters to 18-year-old girls, inviting them into his life. "

" The process of writing has always started for me when I put myself in a place where no one distracts me. "

" To share our stories is not only a worthwhile endeavor for the storyteller, but for those who hear our stories and feel less alone because of it. "

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" When people ask what I write about, that's what I tell them: 'The drama of human relationships.' I'm not even close to running out of material. "

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