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" We are anxious in the face of our unchangeable past; we long to recreate segments of our private histories, but we are stuck with them. "

Lewis B. Smedes

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" No doubt, corporate CEOs who lie to their shareholders and politicians who lie to their public know and believe intellectually that lying is immoral. Why then do they lie? They lie to others because they first lie to themselves. "

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" Some people have loved ones they will not forsake, even though they are a pain in the neck. "

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" Any lazy or biased fool can have opinions; making judgments is the hard work of responsible and compassionate people. "

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" When we forgive evil we do not excuse it, we do not tolerate it, we do not smother it. We look the evil full in the face, call it what it is, let its horror shock and stun and enrage us, and only then do we forgive it. "

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" When we have been badly injured and clearly wronged, we make an instant caricature of the person who did it to us. We define him totally by the one wrong he did. "

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" The right to personal privacy is precious. Without it, we are all potential victims for a prying secret police. "

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" Nothing is more private than a woman's body; it is her physical, emotional, and moral citadel. She cannot be free at all if she is not free to decide for herself, in private, what to do with her body. "

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" God is not a doormat, nor should anyone else be a doormat. "

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" The Holy Spirit, thank God, often enables people to forgive even though they are not sure how they did it. "

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" Forgiving is love's toughest work, and love's biggest risk. "

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" What is a disloyal act? A person is disloyal if he treats you as a stranger when, in fact, he belongs to you as a friend or partner. Each of us is bound to some special others by the invisible fibers of loyalty. "

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" The lies we tell ourselves are the most subtle of all lies. "

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" I believe that we should, on biblical grounds, tell all parents of mentally disabled children that God loves their children, regrets terribly that they are disabled, and will, when they die, carry them gently into a heavenly life where every person is forever whole. "

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" Promise keeping is a powerful means of grace in a time when people hardly depend on each other to remember and live by their word. "

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" Modern Americans suffer from a fear of judging. Passing judgment on the behavior of fellow human beings is considered an act of medieval, undemocratic intolerance. "

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" Nobody sees reality whole; we all need others to show us the parts of it that they see better than we do. Nobody sees reality with total accuracy; we all need others to correct our own vision. "

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" Our history is an inevitable component of our being. One thing only can release us from the grip of our history. That one thing is forgiveness. "

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" Our society is pluralistic. We who accept the privilege of membership in that society agree to respect the people's right to live by their own religious precepts. "

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" No one really forgives unless he has been hurt. "

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" Our sense of fairness tells us that people should pay for the wrong they do. "

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" My father was only thirty-one when he died of a heart attack, much too young for a father to die and leave his young wife with five rambunctious little kids to take care of. I was the youngest. Only a couple of months old when he died. "

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" As I read the New Testament, I find only one path to salvation - the path of an informed faith in Jesus Christ. "

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" Seeing reality for what it is is what we call discernment. The work of discernment is very hard. "

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" The problem with revenge is that it never evens the score. It ties both the injured and the injurer to an escalator of pain. Both are stuck on the escalator as long as parity is demanded, and the escalator never stops. "

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" The God who has the whole world in his hands has grace for the whole world in his heart. "

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" At the cross, God was punishing Jesus for the sins of the world. God's justice required a penalty from sinners, and in his unspeakable love, he paid the penalty himself in the person of his crucified Son. "

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" It takes one person to forgive, it takes two people to be reunited. "

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" Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future. "

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