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" You never say and do the things you wish you had said or done when someone close to you may not be around in awhile. Closure is impossible; that's the heart of the grief you will carry with you for the rest of your life. "

Jesse Andrews

Rest

Impossible

Life

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Lot

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" Young adults are honest readers. They won't stay with a book unless they have a reason, so it has to move along. "

" You show up at high school, there's all these kids you don't know, and you're terrified that people will have some kind of wrong or unpleasant impression of you. You just don't want anything to ruin your public persona, because you actually have a public persona in high school. "

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" 'Munmun' happened because the human world's dizzying inequality - of wealth and of power - had begun to send me over the edge, and I had to write something to try to help myself understand it a little better. "

" I was trained in jazz, which I love. "

" I watched a ton of films growing up, but in a haphazard way. There was nothing scholarly or focused about it. "

Jesse Andrews

Nothing

Growing Up

" I started playing music around 13 or 14, played jazz in high school, and played other stuff in college. After college, I tried to make it as a musician. I lived in a big squalid house full of dudes outside of Boston. We were all musicians. We built this studio in the basement and played there all hours of the day. "

" Hebrew School was my first introduction to real feminism. I remember that much more than I remember any kind of actual religious teaching. "

" If you're in a band for long enough, you see your bandmates at their best and their worst, and if you can stick together through that, you're basically family to each other. "

" My first drafts are always terrible, and I hate them, but the process for me is all about writing the bad version until it tells you what the good version is. And then you write that. "

" Everyone's got this hidden infinity that you only get glimpses of. They're always more complex than your conception of them will allow. "

" James Joyce actually is rewarding you in all of these incredible ways. "

" It wasn't until I got to college and had a lot of my ego beaten out of me... That's when I started to turn to literature as something deeper than a way to put up points. "

" 'The Haters' has some of the generalities of band experiences that I've had - the camaraderie, the grubbiness, the outsized collective ambitions and frequent painful collisions with reality - but very few of the specifics. I guess it was a way for me to take some of my experiences to their logical crazy extremes. "

" My tastes are pretty varied. For instance, I love Wilco. But it's considered dad rock. It's one of my favorite bands, and yet I find it impossible not to think of myself as a dad-in-training when I listen to it. "

" As a teenager, I was undeveloped and out of touch. The arts was another arena in which to do combat and challenge myself. I read difficult books like James Joyce's 'Ulysses,' but I didn't really understand it, and no one was going to call me on it because I was 16. "

Jesse Andrews

Challenge

Arts

" I think screenwriting gave me more of an affinity for plot - my first novel, 'Me and Earl and the Dying Girl,' doesn't have a very sophisticated roadmap. But screenwriting required me to learn a higher level of plottiness, and I tried to bring that to 'The Haters.' "

" Why do I love Roald Dahl? His voice, more than anything. It's irreproducible. It's so musical, and it's funny even when it's not trying to be, which is most of the time. "

" I never took creative writing. "

" There's a certain trope in young adult fiction. A young girl gets cancer and becomes this radiant person who's a fountain of insight. Everyone who encounters her is changed for the better. That doesn't happen all the time. The whole thing is much more difficult to process. Adults have trouble with it, so why shouldn't we expect teens to? "

" Young adult fiction is getting more popular among adults because the writer is trying hard all the time to maintain the reader's interest. "

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Trying

Hard