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" I don't ever want to tie a song in a little bow. Life doesn't work that way, and war doesn't ever work that way. "
Mary Gauthier
War
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" I got sober at 27 and started writing around 30 and started playing music in public around 32, 33. "
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" I spent my 18th birthday in jail. Charges were dropped as long as I promised never to return to the state of Kansas. My parents took me home to Louisiana. I lasted there a week. Then I ran away. "
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" Ultimately, what I want is for my songs to outlive me: I want my songs to keep being played even after I'm gone. "
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" Music and books, I think, were the two things I trusted the most as a child - songs and books. "
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Child
Music
" If I write for beauty and truth, the songs will find their way to me. Then, it's the songs that speak to the audience, and they can become part of the tribe that is into what I do. "
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" Soldiers are trained not to be vulnerable, but when they come home, they've got to learn it. "
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