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" I don't really write for catharsis; I get that kind of work done in therapy. "
Mary Gauthier
Done
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" What I've found at 48 years old is that there's nothing about me that's unique. "
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" We can't see ourselves very clearly. This I learned as a songwriter. I'm forever trying to figure out what my own truth is. "
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" Once I got my life sorted and started to get healthy, then I was able to focus on writing. "
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" Creating something beautiful out of pain helps ease the pain. So, that's kind of how I got to songwriting - quite honestly out of desperation. "
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" I'm a traveler and a vagabond and an observer, and the songs come through that. And that's just the way it's going to be. "
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" When I finally got sober, I moved towards what I might have been if I hadn't been destroying myself when I was young. "
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" I guess I find it easier to talk when I have a guitar in front of me. "
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" I teach songwriting a lot, and I always tell my students, 'You gotta write the little songs sometimes to get to the next big song in the chute.' You gotta write 'em to get to it. You never know what's going to be a little song or a big song. "
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" There's such a thing as a tribe - and family of choice. "
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" I got issues. Boy, have I got issues. "
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" I think if people really listened to what our families who serve go through, we could have a realistic discussion of what it means to send young people to war. "
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" A song is an emotional lightning bolt - a good one, anyway. "
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" What matters is what happens in the soul of an artist when you're playing. "
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" Ultimately, what I want is for my songs to outlive me: I want my songs to keep being played even after I'm gone. "
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Even
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" What I really like is this salted calamari - with jalapenos on top. "
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" The belief when your mother gives you away is that there's something deeply wrong. Mothers don't give babies away. There's something wrong with me, something unlovable, something seriously flawed in me. It's a fundamental thing; it's precognitive. You feel it rather than think it. How could you not? "
Mary Gauthier
Mother
You
Think
" What I'm finding is there's an awful lot about adoption and relinquishment and the complicated nature of family that we, as human beings, haven't been able to have a real discussion about yet without a lot of censorship. "
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Finding
Family
Censorship
" I always knew I was going to make a record called 'The Foundling.' Since I picked up a guitar, I knew it. "
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" Fundamentally, our job as songwriters is to sit down and listen. "
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" I'm from New Orleans, and I have a French last name - although I have no real relationship with my last name because it's not my name. I don't know my name. "
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Real
" I don't ever want to tie a song in a little bow. Life doesn't work that way, and war doesn't ever work that way. "
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War
Way
Work
" When I first got sober, I hadn't read anything for six or seven years. I didn't have even that much focus. "
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" It can take me many months to write one of my own songs. "
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Own
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" There's a universal inside of me. So if I tell my story, you're going to see parts of your story in it. I don't know which parts, but we all overlap. We're all very much alike. "
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" In my early years, I couldn't find a community. I couldn't find anybody like me. I felt so isolated. There was nothing but shame and loneliness. "
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" I came to music and knowing a little bit about life, and I came to music knowing a lot about business - and that's a real advantage. By the time I came to music, I had purchased real estate, opened restaurants, and been in the business world, so the music business didn't blindside me. "
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" There's an ocean of misunderstanding. It's called the civilian-military divide. I had a lot to learn about our military - who they are, what burdens they carry. "
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" I got sober at 27 and started writing around 30 and started playing music in public around 32, 33. "
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" I have got my story. Adoptees rarely get our stories. We only know what we are told. I don't even have my story, really. My mother won't tell me. She won't tell me who my father is. She won't tell me the story of my birth. "
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She
" Melody's like tweezers that go into the infection and pull out the wounded part. You can almost not stay silent in the face of a melody that matches your emotion. You feel seen. "
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