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" I might just not be a big-city bug. "
Tara Westover
Bug
Just
Might
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" So, I was born and raised the youngest of seven children on this really beautiful mountain in Southern Idaho. But my dad had some radical beliefs. And because of those beliefs, we were isolated. So I was never allowed to go to school or to the doctor. "
Tara Westover
Mountain
Children
Beautiful
" During my first semester of college, I raised my hand in a class and asked the professor to define a word I didn't know. The word was holocaust, and I had to ask because, until that moment, I had never heard of it. "
Tara Westover
Moment
Know
Class
" I didn't know if I would ever reconcile with my family, and I needed to believe that I could forgive, regardless. "
Tara Westover
Family
Believe
Forgive
" I'm no longer religious, but the Bible fascinates me. Hardly anyone reads it anymore, but it's got everything: it's a book of poetry, it's a book of principle, it's a book of stories, and of myths and of epic tales, a book of histories and a book of fictions, of riddles, fables, parables and allegories. "
Tara Westover
Everything
Book
Bible
" I had been raised in the mountains of Idaho by a father who distrusted many of the institutions that people take for granted - public education, doctors and hospitals, and the government. "
Tara Westover
Mountains
People
Father
" I taught myself algebra and a little grammar, and somehow I scraped a high enough score on the ACT to be admitted to Brigham Young University, even though I had no formal education. "
Tara Westover
Enough
High
Education
" I choose not to see my parents because I value myself - and they didn't value me or my mind. "
Tara Westover
Mind
Parents
Value
" I was 17 the first time I set foot in a classroom, but 10 years later, I would graduate from Cambridge with a Ph.D. 'Educated' is the story of how I came by my education. It is also the story of how I lost my family. "
Tara Westover
Time
Lost
Education
" You can miss someone every day and still be glad you don't have to see them. "
Tara Westover
Miss
Day
Every Day
" I have a theory that all abuse, no matter what kind of abuse it is, is foremost an assault on the mind. "
Tara Westover
Theory
Abuse
Mind
" An education is not so much about making a living as making a person. "
Tara Westover
Education
Person
Much
" I spent my summers bottling peaches and my winters rotating supplies. When the World of Men failed, my family would continue on, unaffected. "
Tara Westover
Continue
World
Peaches
" I think that when memoir goes wrong, it goes wrong from too much memory, too much detail. It's about clearing all that away and just getting to the story. "
Tara Westover
Too Much
Detail
Memory
" I think it's a belief that you can learn something. That's something that I really value from the upbringing I got. "
Tara Westover
Belief
Think
Value
" I read a handful of memoirs to get a sense of what the genre meant. I needed to learn the fundamentals of the craft. I had never written a word of narrative. What is a tense shift, what is point of view? I didn't know any of it. "
Tara Westover
Point Of View
Craft
Know
" I think you can change your belief, but sometimes your behavior takes a lot longer. "
Tara Westover
Change
Belief
You
" My loyalty to my father had increased in proportion to the miles between us. "
Tara Westover
Miles
Us
Loyalty
" I get up when I feel like getting up. That's the deal I've made with myself: I can stay in bed as long as my dog's bladder holds. The other half of that deal is that once the dog is walked, the very next thing I do is write. It's mechanical. It's programming, very nearly brainwashing. "
Tara Westover
Long
Myself
I Can
" We think love is noble, and in some ways, it is. But in some ways, it isn't. Love is just love. And sometimes people do terrible things because of it. "
Tara Westover
Love Is
Think
Sometimes
" There was a lot of beauty in my childhoood. "
Tara Westover
Beauty
Lot
" I think if you're going to abuse someone, you really have to convince them of two things. First, you have to normalise what you're doing, convince them that it's not that bad. And the second thing is to convince them that they deserve it in some way. "
Tara Westover
Doing
Someone
Way
" Anyone who grows up reading the Bible for spiritual reasons, you get accustomed to reading things that are too much for you, too profound for you... Having that belief that you should read them anyway gives you a great advantage over people who only read what they think they can understand. "
Tara Westover
Great
Spiritual
Reading
" My mother was a midwife and a herbalist, so we would go on these long walks, looking for yarrow or rosehips or whatever she needed to make her tinctures. "
Tara Westover
Mother
Go
Her
" If you want to live a miserable life, making your life all about other people is the way to do it. "
Tara Westover
You
Way
Want
" We think about education as a stepping stone into a higher socio-economic class, into a better job. And it does do those things. But I don't think that's what it really is. I experienced it as getting access to different ideas and perspectives and using them to construct my own mind. "
Tara Westover
Education
Ideas
Job
" I don't really feel like I belong anywhere. "
Tara Westover
Really
Feel
Like
" Because I never attended elementary schools of any kind, I missed most of the books that were popular with other kids my age. There was an exception, however, which was 'Harry Potter.' My grandmother gave me the first book when I was about 13, and I read it, then read all the rest. "
Tara Westover
Rest
Grandmother
Book
" When I was 17, I went to Brigham Young University. That was the first time I had set foot in a classroom. "
Tara Westover
Classroom
Time
University
" I had a mental breakdown while doing my Ph.D. at Cambridge, soon after I cut off contact with my parents, and I started seeing the university counsellor, one of the best decisions I ever made. There's something very nourishing in setting aside an hour a week to talk. "
Tara Westover
Parents
Doing
Decisions
" I have very non-eccentric hobbies. I like to read, to have dinner with friends, and junk out on TV like everybody else. "
Tara Westover
Friends
Out
TV