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All Quotes by author - Tara Westover
" Academic writing is such a different way of writing. "
Different
Writing
Way
" All my father's stories were about our mountain, our valley, our jagged little patch of Idaho. "
Mountain
Idaho
Stories
" Although my family attended the same church as everyone in our town, our religion was not the same. I could stand with my family or with the gentiles... but there was no foothold in between. "
Stand
Church
Family
" An education is not so much about making a living as making a person. "
Education
Person
Much
" Anger can be a good thing. It's a mechanism that your brain uses to get you out of situations that are bad for you. But in terms of leading a peaceful life, it is not very productive. "
Anger
Brain
Good
" Anyone who grows up reading the Bible for spiritual reasons, you get accustomed to reading things that are too much for you, too profound for you... Having that belief that you should read them anyway gives you a great advantage over people who only read what they think they can understand. "
Great
Spiritual
Reading
" At BYU, I discovered history, then historiography. I became fascinated with the study of historians and historical trends, with the idea that the way we remember the past changes and shifts with our own preoccupations. "
Past
Remember
Changes
" Because I never attended elementary schools of any kind, I missed most of the books that were popular with other kids my age. There was an exception, however, which was 'Harry Potter.' My grandmother gave me the first book when I was about 13, and I read it, then read all the rest. "
Rest
Grandmother
Book
" BYU was a really positive place for me. "
Positive
Place
Me
" During my first semester of college, I raised my hand in a class and asked the professor to define a word I didn't know. The word was holocaust, and I had to ask because, until that moment, I had never heard of it. "
Moment
Know
Class
" For a long time, I didn't think I had the right to walk away from my family. "
Right
Walk
Family
" Forgiveness isn't just the absence of anger. I think it's also the presence of self-love, when you actually begin to value yourself. "
Yourself
You
Anger
" I adore Toni Morrison. I think we would all be better writers if we read more of her. "
Think
Adore
Better
" I can't have my family in my life because they are abusive, and I don't have control over that. There is an abusive culture in my family, and I have to turn away from it. "
Family
My Life
Control
" I choose not to see my parents because I value myself - and they didn't value me or my mind. "
Mind
Parents
Value
" I didn't even have a birth certificate until I was 9 years old, which meant that, according to the state of Idaho and the federal government, I just didn't exist. "
Years
Just
Government
" I didn't know if I would ever reconcile with my family, and I needed to believe that I could forgive, regardless. "
Family
Believe
Forgive
" I didn't read much in high school, maybe because I didn't go to high school. Instead, I worked. "
Because
School
High School
" I don't really feel like I belong anywhere. "
Really
Feel
Like
" I do think we have collectively begun to conflate the institutions of education for education itself. Education is an individual's pursuit of understanding and has a lot of implications for that person, for the kind of person that they are. "
Education
Understanding
Think
" I felt like I needed to come to terms with the decision I'd made to let go of my family. What do you do when you want to be loyal to your family but you feel that loyalty to them is in conflict somehow with loyalty to yourself? "
Yourself
Loyalty
Conflict
" I felt like we had stories about family loyalty; I didn't feel like we had stories about what to do when you felt that loyalty to your family was in conflict with loyalty to yourself. "
Yourself
Conflict
Family
" If you want to live a miserable life, making your life all about other people is the way to do it. "
You
Way
Want
" I get up when I feel like getting up. That's the deal I've made with myself: I can stay in bed as long as my dog's bladder holds. The other half of that deal is that once the dog is walked, the very next thing I do is write. It's mechanical. It's programming, very nearly brainwashing. "
Long
Myself
I Can
" I had access to books, and I could read... but that more foundational, basic historical awareness, I didn't have any of that. "
Awareness
Read
More
" I had a mental breakdown while doing my Ph.D. at Cambridge, soon after I cut off contact with my parents, and I started seeing the university counsellor, one of the best decisions I ever made. There's something very nourishing in setting aside an hour a week to talk. "
Parents
Doing
Decisions
" I had been educated in the rhythms of the mountain, rhythms in which change was never fundamental, only cyclical. The same sun appeared each morning, swept over the valley, and dropped behind the peak. The snows that fell in winter always melted in the spring. "
Morning
Mountain
Sun
" I had been raised in the mountains of Idaho by a father who distrusted many of the institutions that people take for granted - public education, doctors and hospitals, and the government. "
Mountains
People
Father
" I had grown up preparing for the Days of Abomination, watching for the sun to darken, for the moon to drip as if with blood. "
Moon
Sun
Up
" I had to be - I was in school for probably three or four years before I began taking courses in history and political science, and I just started to realize how big the world was. I mean, when I arrived in college, I didn't know anything. "
History
Science
World
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