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" I'd never had money growing up, and it's never been that important to me, except maybe to take our kids on a nice vacation or something like that. "
Harlan Coben
Vacation
Me
Growing Up
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" I am, after all, a thriller writer. I routinely delve into the darkest chambers of the human heart. I've written about murder, kidnapping, depravity, horror, violence, and disfigurement. "
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" Make no mistake, adolescence is a war. No one gets out unscathed. "
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" If I don't write, I hate myself. Simple as that. My life is out of balance. "
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" Life may not always fall into neat chapters, and you may not always get the satisfying ending you're looking for, but sometimes a good explanation is all the rewrite you need. "
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" I never bought the excuse of not having time to write. If you really want to do it, you're either going to find those hours or eventually decide not to be a writer. "
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" My house has too many distractions. There's the email. There's checking my Amazon ranking. I know I'm the only author who's ever done that, ever. There's the fax. Too many distractions. I like to go out and write. "
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" When you like something and you're pretty good at it and you can make a living doing it, you don't ask why. You just count your blessings and go with it. "
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" I'm thinking of taking up golf, but the idea of spending time with golfers frightens me. "
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" What I want to do is tell stories about normal people in the American suburbs. I don't write the book where it's a conspiracy reaching the prime minister; I don't write the book with the big serial killer who lops off heads. My setting is a very placid pool of suburbia, family life. And within that I can make pretty big splashes. "
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" Being a parent is not for the faint of heart. I may joke about knowing fear, but the fact is, the first time I ever knew real fear was the day Charlotte, my first child, was born. Suddenly there is someone in the world you care about more than anything. "
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" I'm a little bit of a control freak. "
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" That's what a good crime novelist - any good novelist - should do with you: play with your perceptions while showing you everything in plain sight. "
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" Frankly I'm fairly boring or fairly busy. Between writing and family, I have little time for anything else. "
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" I always say three things make a writer: inspiration, obviously; perspiration, doing the work. But the third is desperation. I'm not really fit for anything else, or to have a real job. That fear drives me. The pressure has always been self inflicted. "
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" In real life, coincidences happen all the time. In novels, they are leapt upon with fury. "
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" No characters in 'Stay Close,' including the leads, are black and white. I want them to be grey. I think that makes for a much more interesting reading experience, something that will stay with you a little bit longer. "
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" This is the price you pay for having a great father. You get the wonder, the joy, the tender moments - and you get the tears at the end, too. "
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" In the end, we know what makes us happy. We also know what makes us unhappy. That's the irony. We know and yet we still mess it up. That's part of the human condition, no, and why we need to work on it. "
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" Sometimes even when the book is over I don't know who's good and who's bad. It's really more interesting, I think, to write about gray characters than it is to write about black and white. "
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" You can't have an up without a down, a right without a left, a back without a front - or a happy without a sad. "
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" I always think the insecurity is going to go away, but it's always there. Only bad writers think they're good. "
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" The book I always say that influenced me, subconsciously, because at the time I didn't know I wanted to be a writer, was William Goldman's 'Marathon Man.' That was the first adult thriller that I loved. I read it when I was 15 or so, when my father gave it to me. "
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" When I'm writing, what I pretend subconsciously is that we're cavemen, we're sitting around the fire, and I'm telling you stories. If I bore you, you're probably going to pick up a big club and hit me over the head. "
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" Writing is one of the few activities where quantity will inevitably make quality. The more you write, the better you're going to get at it. "
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" I like to go out and write. So I'll often go to a Starbucks or a local coffee bar, and I'll sit there and I'll write. I can write pretty much anywhere. "
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" If I'm not writing well, I'm not happy. If I'm not spending enough time with my family, I'm not happy. If I'm not connecting to friends or if I don't work out enough... You get the point. Everything has to be balanced. Nothing should be an extreme. "
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