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" I pretty much only wear Lilly Pulitzer ties because my best friend owns the company. "
Harlan Coben
Best
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Only
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" I never bought the excuse of not having time to write. If you really want to do it, you're either going to find those hours or eventually decide not to be a writer. "
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Find
Never
Going
" I can write pretty much anywhere if you give me time and some quiet. The home is not usually the best place because I have four children. It's usually pandemonium around here! "
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Best
Children
Home
" I like to go out and write. So I'll often go to a Starbucks or a local coffee bar, and I'll sit there and I'll write. I can write pretty much anywhere. "
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Coffee
Go
" Frankly I'm fairly boring or fairly busy. Between writing and family, I have little time for anything else. "
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Busy
Writing
" In real life, coincidences happen all the time. In novels, they are leapt upon with fury. "
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Real
Life
Real Life
" If I'm not writing well, I'm not happy. If I'm not spending enough time with my family, I'm not happy. If I'm not connecting to friends or if I don't work out enough... You get the point. Everything has to be balanced. Nothing should be an extreme. "
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" I'm not a big sports fan. "
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Sports Fan
Sports
Fan
" You can't have an up without a down, a right without a left, a back without a front - or a happy without a sad. "
Harlan Coben
Happy
Back
You
" Life may not always fall into neat chapters, and you may not always get the satisfying ending you're looking for, but sometimes a good explanation is all the rewrite you need. "
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You
Life
Good
" In short, the satisfaction of creating, not necessarily the process, always lifts my heart. "
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Process
Heart
Short
" Writing my first book, I think in hindsight I went into it saying, 'It's gonna sell.' I was earning enough to scrape by sometime around a book or two before 'Tell No One.' I moved up from $50,000 to $75,000, then $150,000 for each book. I had never thought I would be doing anything else. I had enough encouragement. "
Harlan Coben
Think
Saying
Thought
" Children learn much more from how you act than from what you tell them. There are times this worries me - we parents are rarely the role models we want to be. True for life. True for driving. "
Harlan Coben
Driving
Children
Parents
" That's what a good crime novelist - any good novelist - should do with you: play with your perceptions while showing you everything in plain sight. "
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Crime
Your
You
" We're called New Jersey but we're actually the suburbs of New York. "
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New Jersey
York
New
" The preparation for building a series of thrillers based on a single character is kind of like the preparation for becoming a parent: The best part is the idea - wink, wink. "
Harlan Coben
Preparation
Best
Character
" You know, people call mystery novels or thrillers 'puzzles.' I never understood that, because when I buy a puzzle, I already know what it is. It's on the box. And even if I don't, if it's a 5,000-piece puzzle of the 'Mona Lisa', it's not like I put the last piece in and go, 'I had no idea it's the 'Mona Lisa'!' "
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People
Puzzle
Last
" No characters in 'Stay Close,' including the leads, are black and white. I want them to be grey. I think that makes for a much more interesting reading experience, something that will stay with you a little bit longer. "
Harlan Coben
Reading
Black And White
Experience
" What I want to do is tell stories about normal people in the American suburbs. I don't write the book where it's a conspiracy reaching the prime minister; I don't write the book with the big serial killer who lops off heads. My setting is a very placid pool of suburbia, family life. And within that I can make pretty big splashes. "
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American
Life
Book
" I am, after all, a thriller writer. I routinely delve into the darkest chambers of the human heart. I've written about murder, kidnapping, depravity, horror, violence, and disfigurement. "
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I Am
Darkest
Heart
" There are three things that make a person a writer: inspiration, perspiration and desperation. "
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Desperation
Person
Inspiration
" I try to stress to my children that buying something never leads to true happiness. "
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Happiness
Try
Children
" I'm thinking of taking up golf, but the idea of spending time with golfers frightens me. "
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Spending Time
Thinking
Time
" This is the price you pay for having a great father. You get the wonder, the joy, the tender moments - and you get the tears at the end, too. "
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Father
End
Great
" Let me back up a little and tell you why I prefer writing to real life: You can rewrite. A novel, for example, can be cleaned up, altered, trimmed, improved. Life, on the other hand, is one big messy rough draft. "
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Back
Life
Me
" I'm a little bit of a control freak. "
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Control
Little
Freak
" I remember the days of sitting at book signings, playing with my pen when no one would come, and still I even then thought I was living the dream, because I had a book out. "
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Remember
Pen
Book
" I'm the Jerry Lewis of crime fiction. "
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Lewis
Crime Fiction
Fiction
" And I love the twist. I love to fool you once, I love to fool you twice, and on the very last page, quite often - very last paragraph sometimes - I like to just play with your perception one more time in a way that makes everything that came before just a little bit different. "
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Fool
Play
Perception
" I love stories. When I'm writing, what I pretend subconsciously is that we're cavemen, we're sitting around the fire, and I'm telling you stories. If I bore you, you're probably going to pick up a big club and hit me over the head. "
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You
Me
" I always say three things make a writer: inspiration, obviously; perspiration, doing the work. But the third is desperation. I'm not really fit for anything else, or to have a real job. That fear drives me. The pressure has always been self inflicted. "
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Fear
Work
Self