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" You can't have an up without a down, a right without a left, a back without a front - or a happy without a sad. "
Harlan Coben
Happy
Back
You
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" Writing my first book, I think in hindsight I went into it saying, 'It's gonna sell.' I was earning enough to scrape by sometime around a book or two before 'Tell No One.' I moved up from $50,000 to $75,000, then $150,000 for each book. I had never thought I would be doing anything else. I had enough encouragement. "
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Think
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Thought
" I'm the Jerry Lewis of crime fiction. "
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Crime Fiction
Fiction
" I love stories. When I'm writing, what I pretend subconsciously is that we're cavemen, we're sitting around the fire, and I'm telling you stories. If I bore you, you're probably going to pick up a big club and hit me over the head. "
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You
Me
" When you like something and you're pretty good at it and you can make a living doing it, you don't ask why. You just count your blessings and go with it. "
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Good
Blessings
Living
" If I'm not writing well, I'm not happy. If I'm not spending enough time with my family, I'm not happy. If I'm not connecting to friends or if I don't work out enough... You get the point. Everything has to be balanced. Nothing should be an extreme. "
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Writing
Family
Happy
" The muse is not an angelic voice that sits on your shoulder and sings sweetly. The muse is the most annoying whine. The muse isn't hard to find, just hard to like - she follows you everywhere, tapping you on the shoulder, demanding that you stop doing whatever else you might be doing and pay attention to her. "
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You
She
Doing
" I always say three things make a writer: inspiration, obviously; perspiration, doing the work. But the third is desperation. I'm not really fit for anything else, or to have a real job. That fear drives me. The pressure has always been self inflicted. "
Harlan Coben
Fear
Work
Self
" You know, people call mystery novels or thrillers 'puzzles.' I never understood that, because when I buy a puzzle, I already know what it is. It's on the box. And even if I don't, if it's a 5,000-piece puzzle of the 'Mona Lisa', it's not like I put the last piece in and go, 'I had no idea it's the 'Mona Lisa'!' "
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People
Puzzle
Last
" Writing isn't about the process. It is about creating. The joy comes not from the process but from the creation. "
Harlan Coben
Writing
Process
Joy
" A novel is like a sausage. You might like the final taste but you don't want to see how it was made. "
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Taste
You
See
" I live in the suburbs, the final battleground of the American dream, where people get married and have kids and try to scratch out a happy life for themselves. "
Harlan Coben
Dream
Live
Life
" I'm not very happy idle. "
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Very
Happy
Idle
" Only bad writers think they're good. "
Harlan Coben
Only
Bad
Good
" When I was seventeen, I worked as a counsellor at a co-ed sleep-away camp for eight weeks. I loved it but it could be harrowing - it was far too much responsibility for someone my age. "
Harlan Coben
Too Much
Responsibility
Age
" I always think the insecurity is going to go away, but it's always there. Only bad writers think they're good. "
Harlan Coben
Insecurity
Go
Always
" The most annoying and full-of-crap thing a writer says is, 'I write only for myself, I don't care if anyone reads it.' A writer without a reader doesn't exist. "
Harlan Coben
Write
Care
Most
" If I didn't write, I'd be like a duvet cover; I have no other marketable skills. Clearly I'm not meant to do anything else. "
Harlan Coben
Like
Write
Skills
" The state of New Jersey is really two places - terrible cities and wonderful suburbs. I live in the suburbs, the final battleground of the American dream, where people get married and have kids and try to scratch out a happy life for themselves. It's very romantic in that way, but a bit naive. I like to play with that in my work. "
Harlan Coben
Life
Romantic
Work
" Sometimes even when the book is over I don't know who's good and who's bad. It's really more interesting, I think, to write about gray characters than it is to write about black and white. "
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Good
Think
Know
" I'm not a big sports fan. "
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Sports Fan
Sports
Fan
" We're called New Jersey but we're actually the suburbs of New York. "
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New Jersey
York
New
" Children learn much more from how you act than from what you tell them. There are times this worries me - we parents are rarely the role models we want to be. True for life. True for driving. "
Harlan Coben
Driving
Children
Parents
" I am very lucky that I get to tell stories for a living. I love being able to grab people's attention, to keep them turning the pages, to make them stay awake all night. I want to stir the pulse, yes, but also to stir the heart. I hope 'The Woods' does that. "
Harlan Coben
Love
Hope
I Am
" Frankly I'm fairly boring or fairly busy. Between writing and family, I have little time for anything else. "
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Boring
Busy
Writing
" My house has too many distractions. There's the email. There's checking my Amazon ranking. I know I'm the only author who's ever done that, ever. There's the fax. Too many distractions. I like to go out and write. "
Harlan Coben
Go
House
Know
" Tragedy is a hell of a teacher. It's much too strict, but it's a hell of a teacher. "
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Strict
Tragedy
Much
" What I want to do is tell stories about normal people in the American suburbs. I don't write the book where it's a conspiracy reaching the prime minister; I don't write the book with the big serial killer who lops off heads. My setting is a very placid pool of suburbia, family life. And within that I can make pretty big splashes. "
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American
Life
Book
" I'd never had money growing up, and it's never been that important to me, except maybe to take our kids on a nice vacation or something like that. "
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Vacation
Me
Growing Up
" Hope can be the most wonderful thing in the world or it can crush your heart like an eggshell. "
Harlan Coben
Heart
Hope
World
" I love to make even villains people you can relate to. When you find out who did it, I think you almost like the person, which is not easy to do. "
Harlan Coben
Find
Think
You