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" If life gives you lemons, don't settle for simply making lemonade - make a glorious scene at a lemonade stand. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Make
Stand
You
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" I don't think you can come into your wisdom until you have made mistakes on your own skin and felt them in reality of your own life. "
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Mistakes
" I consider a good dinner party at our house to be where people drink and eat more than they're meant to. My husband is a really fantastic cook. His mother is Italian and if you walk into our house, we assume you're starving. "
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Walk
Good
Mother
" If I am to truly become an autonomous woman, then I must take over that role of being my own guardian. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
My Own
Become
Own
" I have a rigid self-accountability. You have to work hard. "
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Work Hard
You
Rigid
" And we have a little herb garden, which survived the winter thanks to global warming. It makes me feel like a cool, old Italian housewife, that I kept my rosemary alive outside all winter. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Garden
Cool
Alive
" Absolute certainty is not something I strive for anymore. I've learned the hard way that destiny usually looks upon our most strident convictions with amusement, or perhaps even pity. "
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Most
Way
Looks
" I push every day against forces that say you have to go faster, be more effective, be more productive, you have to constantly outdo yourself, you have to constantly outdo your neighbor - all of the stuff that creates an incredibly productive society, but also a very neurotic one. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Push
Day
You
" I don't hate humanity and I'm not interested in people who do. Although, it's funny, actually, some of my favorite writers really do. Like Martin Amis. My dirty secret. 'London Fields' is one of my favorite books ever. And it's indefensible! But he's so funny... I forgive him everything. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Funny
Hate
Humanity
" I was a writer before 'Eat, Pray, Love,' and I'll be a writer after it's over. It's what I want to do for the rest of my life. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Want
Eat
Life
" If you are given only one opportunity to speak, be certain your voice is heard. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Only
Speak
You
" I am far more of a loner than people would imagine. But I am the most gregarious and socially interactive loner you ever met. The thing is, I am fascinated by people's stories and I'm very talkative and can't ever say no to anything or anyone, so I tend to over-socialize, to give away too much of my time to the many people I adore. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
People
Say
Time
" Nobody until very recently would have thought that their husband was supposed to be their best friend, confidante, intellectual soul mate, co-parent, inspiration. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Friend
Soul
Best
" Most important, though, I had to wait until I found the perfect traveling/eating/drinking/napping companion. And I did finally find him, two years ago - my Brazilian-born, French-speaking, wine-worshipping, tripe-consuming, uncomplaining traveler of a sweetheart. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Him
Important
Two
" My husband is not American. He was born in Brazil, where he grew up under a filthy, corrupt dictatorship. In his twenties, he moved to Europe, where he lived for a while under various socialist democracies. He spent a few years on a kibbutz in Israel, living out a utopian experiment in communal existence. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Born
Living
Husband
" It's not an accident that both my sister and I are writers. Our parents created an accidental Petri dish. My family has great storytellers, and I grew up in a very funny, conversational house and didn't have television. This small family farm was a bubble world that didn't have much to do with reality. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Family
Great
Sister
" My writing practice taught me the important thing is steadfastness. It's not necessarily discipline. Discipline can become a prison. When your spiritual practices become another thing for you to be anxious about, they've lost their usefulness. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Practice
Spiritual
Writing
" Here's the thing: the unit of reverence in Europe is the family, which is why a child born today of unmarried parents in Sweden has a better chance of growing up in a house with both of his parents than a child born to a married couple in America. Here we revere the couple, there they revere the family. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Family
America
Parents
" When I diagnose my depression now, I think it was partially about saying goodbye to these kids that I always expected to have but already knew that I wouldn't. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Now
Depression
Think
" I've always been afraid of saying no to people because I don't want them to be disappointed and dislike me. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Want
Always
Me
" Oh, I just want what we all want: a comfortable couch, a nice beverage, a weekend of no distractions and a book that will stop time, lift me out of my quotidian existence and alter my thinking forever. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Nice
Book
Weekend
" My career started young and I was really ambitious, and then I had success and I hung out with people who were much older. I think I might have been temporally misplaced, so I thought I was 40. It was a premature midlife crisis. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Success
Think
People
" These days I settle for feeling only 85 percent sure about most things, most of the time. I believe this is keeping me sane, and I also believe that it's keeping me human. In fact, I'm 85 percent sure of it. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Believe
Me
I Believe
" I have these new policies toward my life, like 'I will not accelerate when I see the yellow light.' "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Yellow
Light
My Life
" I'm a pleaser. That's my character. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Pleaser
Character
" There's no reason to keep a piece of furniture in your house that is so sacred and rare that you can't put your feet up on it and a dog can't jump up on it. Likewise, a book that sits on a shelf like a piece of porcelain, only to be admired, never to be read again, is a dead book. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Feet
Dog
Book
" Despite having written five books, I worry that I have not written the right kinds of books, or that perhaps I have dedicated too much of my life to writing, and have therefore neglected other aspects of my being. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Life
Too Much
Worry
" Creativity itself doesn't care at all about results - the only thing it craves is the process. Learn to love the process and let whatever happens next happen, without fussing too much about it. Work like a monk, or a mule, or some other representative metaphor for diligence. Love the work. Destiny will do what it wants with you, regardless. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Destiny
Love
Work
" When I lost my friends, it was because I had used the power of giving on them recklessly. I swept into their lives with my big fat checkbook, and I erased years of obstacles for them overnight - but sometimes, in the process, I also accidentally erased years of dignity. "
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Process
Power
Obstacles
" I love my friends and family, but I also love it when they can't find me and I can spend all day reading or walking all alone, in silence, eight thousand miles away from everyone. All alone and unreachable in a foreign country is one my most favorite possible things to be. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Silence
Day
Alone
" I think it's unfortunate that there exists only one path in America to complete social legitimacy, and that is marriage. I think, for instance, that it would be far easier for Americans to elect a black president or a female president than an unmarried president. "
Elizabeth Gilbert
Marriage
Black
Think