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" I've come to terms with the fact that I'll probably be in therapy all of my life. "
Mary Gauthier
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" I guess I find it easier to talk when I have a guitar in front of me. "
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" When you see validation for a life's work and dedication, it's a beautiful day. "
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" I was in the orphanage in New Orleans until I was almost a year old. I don't think I ever got held by my mama, so that was completely and utterly traumatic. I think it was trauma from the first breath, and I think I've spent my whole life trying to heal from that trauma. So it shaped my brain. "
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" I think, because of the kind of writer I am, I can't do it halfway. I can't do it without dedicating my entire life to it. I have to give it a hundred percent. "
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" In a lot of ways, songwriting helped save my life. "
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" Art, when done well, creates empathy. "
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" What I was told is that I was born to a mother who was a Catholic, while her boyfriend was not. They couldn't get married unless they put me up for adoption. "
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" Once I got my life sorted and started to get healthy, then I was able to focus on writing. "
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" People who have been through trauma, their souls are hurting. "
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" We can't see ourselves very clearly. This I learned as a songwriter. I'm forever trying to figure out what my own truth is. "
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" I think if people really listened to what our families who serve go through, we could have a realistic discussion of what it means to send young people to war. "
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" Songs, especially lyrics, have always been really important to me. "
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" When I finally got sober, I moved towards what I might have been if I hadn't been destroying myself when I was young. "
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" When I first got sober, I hadn't read anything for six or seven years. I didn't have even that much focus. "
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" I knew I had that Cajun heritage, that Acadian heritage; I just feel it. And my gut says Irish on the other side. Irish and French, that's what I feel. When you're young, it doesn't matter so much, but as you get older, I would suspect part of the ageing process is to wonder about your ancestors - who were they? What were their lives like? "
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" A lot of time, if you spend too much time in Nashville, songwriters get caught up in charts and numbers and the music business politics. "
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" If I write for beauty and truth, the songs will find their way to me. Then, it's the songs that speak to the audience, and they can become part of the tribe that is into what I do. "
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