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" When I finally got sober, I moved towards what I might have been if I hadn't been destroying myself when I was young. "
Mary Gauthier
Got
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Finally
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" When I first got sober, I hadn't read anything for six or seven years. I didn't have even that much focus. "
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" I have such a good life. It's something I couldn't have imagined in my wildest dreams. "
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Life
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" I think each veteran's soul has something that it needs to say. I know from my own personal traumas, it's very hard to know what that is. But when I'm watching someone else struggle, it's not as confusing for me, 'cause it's not my struggle, so I can help identify that. "
Mary Gauthier
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" I'm grateful to songwriting and recovery to bringing me to a place of peace. "
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Peace
Place
" I'm sort of stuck in adolescence in many ways, like most artists, and march to my own beat. "
Mary Gauthier
Beat
Own
My Own
" I write to make some sense of things that confuse me. The mechanics of my own heart are the most confusing I know about - and don't know about - and other people's are a bit confusing, too. "
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Heart
Know
" Recovery stabilized me; songwriting gave me a purpose. "
Mary Gauthier
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Me
Purpose
" A lot of time, if you spend too much time in Nashville, songwriters get caught up in charts and numbers and the music business politics. "
Mary Gauthier
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Up
Time
" I got interviewed by one writer who started with the line, 'Mary Gauthier is a woman who clearly doesn't care how she looks.' I do too. It's just that I'm not very good at it. "
Mary Gauthier
Care
Woman
She
" What I'm finding is there's an awful lot about adoption and relinquishment and the complicated nature of family that we, as human beings, haven't been able to have a real discussion about yet without a lot of censorship. "
Mary Gauthier
Finding
Family
Censorship
" I've always been drawn to the hard story, the trauma, because I think art can turn it around. "
Mary Gauthier
Think
Trauma
Turn
" When I became a songwriter, it was out of some sort of desperation. I needed to create something. I had to latch on to something, and the guitar was what I grabbed. "
Mary Gauthier
Some
Create
Desperation
" I felt my whole life like I didn't have a family, and I needed one. So I had to build one, and you build one with faith, hope, and the healing power of love - or you end up the 'Unabomber.' That's the choice. "
Mary Gauthier
Love
Life
Hope
" I think it's a stereotype that soldiers don't talk, because my experience is that they will talk if they are met with empathy and no judgment. "
Mary Gauthier
Think
Soldiers
Experience
" I think, because of the kind of writer I am, I can't do it halfway. I can't do it without dedicating my entire life to it. I have to give it a hundred percent. "
Mary Gauthier
Writer
Life
Halfway
" Creating something beautiful out of pain helps ease the pain. So, that's kind of how I got to songwriting - quite honestly out of desperation. "
Mary Gauthier
Creating
Beautiful
Kind
" There's a universal inside of me. So if I tell my story, you're going to see parts of your story in it. I don't know which parts, but we all overlap. We're all very much alike. "
Mary Gauthier
Story
Know
Me
" I did not know that if a member of a family serves, the whole family serves. I did not know that the spouses of our service members carry such a heavy load. "
Mary Gauthier
Family
Service
Our
" Soldiers are trained not to be vulnerable, but when they come home, they've got to learn it. "
Mary Gauthier
Soldiers
Got
Come
" I think if people really listened to what our families who serve go through, we could have a realistic discussion of what it means to send young people to war. "
Mary Gauthier
War
Discussion
People
" I think Bob Dylan showed us that songs can rise to the level of literature, and he proved it over and over again. That's why they keep trying to get him a Nobel Prize for literature: because there is no Nobel Prize for songwriting. "
Mary Gauthier
Think
Trying
Literature
" They send women into combat without being prepared for women in combat. The men resented them being there, and it was just very, very difficult for them, and they had to fight for the respect they were earning. And that's all they want is the respect. "
Mary Gauthier
Fight
Just
Men
" I've come to terms with the fact that I'll probably be in therapy all of my life. "
Mary Gauthier
Fact
Therapy
My Life
" What matters is what happens in the soul of an artist when you're playing. "
Mary Gauthier
Artist
You
Soul
" I have got my story. Adoptees rarely get our stories. We only know what we are told. I don't even have my story, really. My mother won't tell me. She won't tell me who my father is. She won't tell me the story of my birth. "
Mary Gauthier
Father
Story
She
" Being in recovery for a lot of years now, I've worked with a lot of people who've gotten sober and sat with a lot of folks who are suffering. Bearing witness is a really underrated thing; it's a big damn deal. "
Mary Gauthier
People
Recovery
Suffering
" Music and books, I think, were the two things I trusted the most as a child - songs and books. "
Mary Gauthier
Two
Child
Music
" A lot of songwriters have written about soldiers and war, but very few have written with them. "
Mary Gauthier
Soldiers
About
Few
" I long for real and true connection. It has been the theme of all the songs in my whole life. "
Mary Gauthier
Connection
Been
True
" We can't see ourselves very clearly. This I learned as a songwriter. I'm forever trying to figure out what my own truth is. "
Mary Gauthier
Own
Truth
Trying