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" Often people would mistake me for white when I was younger, and I didn't correct them; there would be a period of time that they just thought I was. "
Natasha Trethewey
Me
Time
Thought
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" Even as I think of myself as a 'rememberer,' I also know my memory is probably doing all this work to reconstruct a narrative where I come off better. "
Natasha Trethewey
Myself
Memory
Know
" 'Memory.' 'Race.' 'Murder.' That's what they say about me. I am an elegiac poet. I have some historical questions, and I'm grappling with ways to make sense of history; why it still haunts us in our most intimate relationships with each other, but also in our political decisions. "
Natasha Trethewey
Decisions
Me
Memory
" From the catbird seat, I've found poetry to be the necessary utterance it has always been in America. "
Natasha Trethewey
Seat
Poetry
Been
" I was always very aware of the nature of the place where I was growing up in Gulfport, Mississippi, how that place was shaping my experience of the world. I had to go to the Northeast for graduate school because I felt like I had to get far away from my South, be outside it, to understand it. "
Natasha Trethewey
Nature
World
School
" Writing 'Native Guard,' I didn't know I was working on a single book. I began writing that book because I was interested in the lesser-known history of these black soldiers stationed off the coast of my hometown. "
Natasha Trethewey
Writing
History
Know
" I think people turn to poetry more often than they think they do, or encounter it in more ways than they think that they do. I think we forget the places that we encounter it, say, in songs or in other little bits and pieces of things that we may have remembered from childhood. "
Natasha Trethewey
Poetry
Say
Think
" 'NewsHour' is very interested in poetry, but they're also interested in not just that something's cute to add on at the end of their programming, but something that actually is integrated into the news. "
Natasha Trethewey
Poetry
News
End
" I've been telling my students, 'Imitate, imitate.' And they say, 'Well, what if I plagiarize, or what if I'm not original? I want to be myself.' And I always tell them, 'Your self will shine through'... If you allow yourself to feel deeply and honestly, what you say won't be like anyone else. "
Natasha Trethewey
Self
Myself
You
" When I write notes in my journal, I'm just trying to scribble down as much as possible. Later on, I decide whether to follow some of those first impressions or whether to abandon them. "
Natasha Trethewey
Possible
Trying
Down
" It's so necessary to try and record the cultural memory of people. To set it down for generations to come. To better understand where we are headed. The problem is, a good portion of what we choose to remember is about willed forgetting. Which we all do, I believe, to protect ourselves from what is too difficult. "
Natasha Trethewey
Memory
People
Problem
" I think the biggest thing that I have to do is to remind people that poetry is there for us to turn to not only to remind us that we're not alone - for example, if we are grieving the loss of someone - but also to help us celebrate our joys. That's why so many people I know who've gotten married will have a poem read at the wedding. "
Natasha Trethewey
Celebrate
People
Alone
" In the early 1970s in Atlanta, I attended what had formerly been an all-white school but had become a black school after integration and white flight. Perhaps because of this, the teachers created a curriculum that included a focus on African American literature and history year-round, not just in February. "
Natasha Trethewey
School
American
Focus
" A poem I write is not just about me; it is about national identity, not just regional but national, the history of people in relation to other people. I reach for these outward stories to make sense of my own life, and how my story intersects with a larger public history. "
Natasha Trethewey
Identity
Life
People
" Often it seems that there are writers who are their best selves on the page. That Seamus Heaney was as genuine and deeply admirable in person as in his poems was to me a gift, then as now. "
Natasha Trethewey
Best
Person
Me
" Isolated and unincorporated, North Gulfport lacked a basic infrastructure: flooding and contaminated drinking water were frequent problems. Although finally incorporated in 1994 - not long after the arrival of the first casino - many of North Gulfport's streets still lack curbs, sidewalks, and gutters. "
Natasha Trethewey
Problems
Water
Long
" Before I was ever a poet, my father was writing poems about me, so it was a turning of the tables when I became a poet and started answering, speaking back to his poems in ways that I had not before. "
Natasha Trethewey
Writing
Me
Back
" Dismissals of poetry are nothing new. It's easy to dismiss poetry if one has not read much of it. "
Natasha Trethewey
Nothing
New
Easy
" My mother and my father divorced during the time that my father was getting his Ph.D. at Tulane. "
Natasha Trethewey
Divorced
Getting
Mother
" I think I felt at some point that I couldn't understand poetry or that it was beyond me or it didn't speak to my experience. I think that was because I hadn't yet found the right poems to invite me in. "
Natasha Trethewey
Speak
Think
Experience
" My mother was murdered by my step-father, my brother's father, who was also named Joel, twenty-five years ago. Whatever sadness or burden I've been living with since then, my brother's also been living with, but he's lived with the added burden of having the exact same name as our mother's murderer. "
Natasha Trethewey
Father
Sadness
Name
" Growing up, my birthday was always Confederate Memorial Day. It helped to create this profound sense of awareness about the Civil War and the 100 years between the Civil War and the civil rights movement and my parents' then-illegal and interracial marriage. "
Natasha Trethewey
War
Day
Marriage
" My parents had to go to Ohio to get married in 1965 because it was still illegal in Mississippi. My white father and black mother. "
Natasha Trethewey
Black
White
Parents
" The first thing I tried to do in the months after losing my mother was to write a poem. I found myself turning to poetry in the way so many people do - to make sense of losses. And I wrote pretty bad poems about it. But it did feel that the poem was the only place that could hold this grief. "
Natasha Trethewey
Myself
Mother
Grief
" I find myself frequently introducing myself to someone, saying that, you know, I've grown up black and biracial in the United States. "
Natasha Trethewey
You
Saying
Black
" When I was born here in Gulfport in 1966, my parents' interracial marriage was still illegal, and it was very hard to drive around town with my parents, to be out in public with my parents. "
Natasha Trethewey
Hard
Drive
Marriage
" My own journey in becoming a poet began with memory - with the need to record and hold on to what was being lost. One of my earliest poems, 'Give and Take,' was about my Aunt Sugar, how I was losing her to her memory loss. "
Natasha Trethewey
Journey
Lost
Loss
" I think often people don't realize the great diversity of Southern writing because in their minds, if you're not from the South, it can seem regional and small, and of course that's not the case at all when you start to read the work. "
Natasha Trethewey
Great
Writing
Work
" I am interested in 18th century natural philosophy, science, particularly botany, the study of hybridity in plants and animals, which, of course, then allows me to consider the hybridity of language. "
Natasha Trethewey
Me
I Am
Science
" My father is a poet, my stepmother is a poet, and so I always had encouragement as a child to write. "
Natasha Trethewey
Always
Father
Encouragement
" One of two historically African American communities that sprang up along the Mississippi Gulf Coast after emancipation, North Gulfport has always been a place where residents have had fewer civic resources than those extended to other outlying communities. "
Natasha Trethewey
Up
American
Always