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" This sense in which so much of who we are doesn't break the surface - our knowability to one another is always something I like to explore. "
Claire Messud
Who
Always
Break
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" Because we moved so much, I was always having to adapt and work out the lay of the land. So I felt envious of those who did not have to try. "
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Work
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" Obstruction can be caused by so many factors - perfectionism, distraction, faltering confidence, external demands and pressures. At some point, of course, you've got to push through it all if you're to write, and if you don't, or can't, you're sunk. "
Claire Messud
Distraction
You
Push
" We think that - as kids, you know - that kids make up stories and live in a sort of fictional place, but that, as grown-ups, we tell the truth and live in fact. But, of course, the reality is we take the facts that we know, and then we fill in all the blanks. "
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Reality
Facts
Truth
" When I am teaching, I first give out Tolstoy's 'Childhood,' his first published book. It is so transparent. It gives you exactly what it was like to be on a Russian estate in 1830. You are there. And that is the hope when you sit down and write still, I think - that you can transmit something of what life is like now. "
Claire Messud
Hope
Book
Think
" I digress a lot - it's how I experience the world. I would like to write in a way that will convey that to the reader, but also I need clarity. "
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Experience
Clarity
Need
" I remember laughing so hard as a kid. "
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Hard
Kid
Laughing
" If you live in a family or have five roommates, there's some sort of reality check, but when you live alone, there's a lot more leeway for your fantasy life to be more and more a part of your everyday life. "
Claire Messud
Live
You
Alone
" If it's unseemly and possibly dangerous for a man to be angry, it's totally unacceptable for a woman to be angry. "
Claire Messud
Angry
Woman
Totally
" Women aren't supposed to want stuff. They're not supposed to have high emotions. "
Claire Messud
Stuff
High
Emotions
" We're all living in some state of illusion, even if modestly. "
Claire Messud
Illusion
State
Even
" I was in my senior year of high school when I read 'Notes From Underground' by Dostoyevsky, and it was an exhilarating discovery. I hadn't known up until that moment that fiction could be like that. Fiction could say these things, could be unseemly, could be unsettling and distressing in that particular way, that immediate and urgent way. "
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Discovery
High School
School
" In the world I've lived in, gay marriage, for example, seems completely logical. And yet there are many people who don't live in that world. "
Claire Messud
Gay
Marriage
World
" I'll always find the hardest path. Needless to say, not always a good idea. "
Claire Messud
Hardest
Good
Find
" I believe that, in an ideal world, writers would feel free to write what matters to them without having to consider success, failure, the market, etc. "
Claire Messud
Failure
World
Success
" What is the truth? Is it what you experience? Is it what I experience? Or is there some objective truth in between? "
Claire Messud
Experience
You
Truth Is
" If you're writing a thriller, and you don't make it compelling, then you've really not done your job. So it's easier for me not to set out with certain goals, and then I can't see them as unmet. It's like life generally: If I'm not aiming to be physically fit, then I'm not always thinking about being unfit. "
Claire Messud
Life
Writing
Thinking
" When you move around a lot, there are little bits of you from everywhere. I mean, my father's French, and I speak French, and there's a kind of struggle in me that says, 'I'd like to be French.' But I've never been fully part of that culture, that role. "
Claire Messud
Father
Struggle
Speak
" For me, it was a formative experience reading Eliot when I was younger. 'The Waste Land,' in particular. "
Claire Messud
Me
Reading
Waste
" An abiding preoccupation for me is how much of our lives are invisible and unknown by other people, like the Chekhov story 'The Lady With the Little Dog.' "
Claire Messud
Story
Unknown
People
" I still believe on some level that at the end, somebody will say, 'You get an A-minus for your life.' And it's not true. It's not true. "
Claire Messud
You
Say
Life
" My mother turned 40 in 1973. So in 1970 - when 'The Female Eunuch' came out and Ms. magazine was founded - my mom was 37 with two children, and she was just that little bit too old, and the circumstances of her life were set up in a certain way that for her to fulfill her ambitions and dreams, she would have had to break with the family. "
Claire Messud
Mother
Dreams
Family
" There are people who live under the delusion that simply because they will it to be so, it will be so. "
Claire Messud
Delusion
Will
People
" My tendencies are much more the Henry James thing, where we sit in silence at the table for three minutes, and our whole lives are changed because of a revelation that never quite happens but almost bubbles to the surface. "
Claire Messud
Never
Bubbles
Three
" Awards bolster your confidence in wonderful ways. But they aren't the world. "
Claire Messud
World
Wonderful
Confidence
" For those of us whose thoughts digress; for whom unexpected juxtapositions are exhilarating rather than tiresome; who aim, if always inadequately, to convey life's experience in some semblance of its complexity - for such writers, the semi-colon is invaluable. "
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Experience
Thoughts
Unexpected
" I've never been very practical or realistic - I've always felt that if a project seems easy, or even attainable, why pursue it? "
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Project
Why
Seems
" At the end of the day, what would be a Canadian sensibility? Is it Michael Ondaatje? Alice Munro? Is Margaret Atwood more Canadian than Neil Bissoondath? "
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Than
Day
More
" The fictional narratives that television, film, and the news provide for girls and young women are appalling. "
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Women
Young
News
" I wish I were a really good photographer. "
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Good
Really
Wish
" The way I saw the world as a child was not wrong. And it's okay to see the world that way. If it doesn't hurt anybody. "
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Way
See
Okay