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" Tragedy is a hell of a teacher. It's much too strict, but it's a hell of a teacher. "
Harlan Coben
Strict
Tragedy
Much
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" I am very lucky that I get to tell stories for a living. I love being able to grab people's attention, to keep them turning the pages, to make them stay awake all night. I want to stir the pulse, yes, but also to stir the heart. I hope 'The Woods' does that. "
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I Am
" The most annoying and full-of-crap thing a writer says is, 'I write only for myself, I don't care if anyone reads it.' A writer without a reader doesn't exist. "
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" Being a parent is not for the faint of heart. I may joke about knowing fear, but the fact is, the first time I ever knew real fear was the day Charlotte, my first child, was born. Suddenly there is someone in the world you care about more than anything. "
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Child
World
" Outlining is not writing. Coming up with ideas is not writing. Researching is not writing. Creating characters is not writing. Only writing is writing. "
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Only
" I'm not very happy idle. "
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Happy
Idle
" I always say three things make a writer: inspiration, obviously; perspiration, doing the work. But the third is desperation. I'm not really fit for anything else, or to have a real job. That fear drives me. The pressure has always been self inflicted. "
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Self
" Only bad writers think they're good. "
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Only
Bad
Good
" When I'm writing, what I pretend subconsciously is that we're cavemen, we're sitting around the fire, and I'm telling you stories. If I bore you, you're probably going to pick up a big club and hit me over the head. "
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Sitting
You
Fire
" I love stories. When I'm writing, what I pretend subconsciously is that we're cavemen, we're sitting around the fire, and I'm telling you stories. If I bore you, you're probably going to pick up a big club and hit me over the head. "
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Writing
You
Me
" I don't find any real rivalries with crime and thriller writers anyway. That might sound a little Pollyanna, but for the most part the writers I compete with, if you want to use that word, it's a pretty friendly rivalry. I think we all realise that the boat rises and sinks together. "
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Boat
You
Together
" Make no mistake, adolescence is a war. No one gets out unscathed. "
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Make
Mistake
Out
" The readers are the ones who let us live our dreams. I try to write books which are really compelling - that you'd take on vacation and rather than going out, you'd read in your hotel room because you had to find out what happened. Hopefully that's what readers are responding to. "
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Vacation
Hotel
Live
" I love to make even villains people you can relate to. When you find out who did it, I think you almost like the person, which is not easy to do. "
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Find
Think
You
" I pretty much only wear Lilly Pulitzer ties because my best friend owns the company. "
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Best
Friend
Only
" Life may not always fall into neat chapters, and you may not always get the satisfying ending you're looking for, but sometimes a good explanation is all the rewrite you need. "
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You
Life
Good
" I love to fool you once, I love to fool you twice, I love to fool you a third time. And just when you think it's all over, I have what I call that Carrie hand-out-of-the-grave moment. Just when you think it's all over, I'm going to hit you with just one more. I can't help myself. "
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Fool
Myself
Moment
" A writer without a reader doesn't exist. "
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Exist
Writer
Without
" When I was seventeen, I worked as a counsellor at a co-ed sleep-away camp for eight weeks. I loved it but it could be harrowing - it was far too much responsibility for someone my age. "
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Too Much
Responsibility
Age
" There are three things that make a person a writer: inspiration, perspiration and desperation. "
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Desperation
Person
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" Writing my first book, I think in hindsight I went into it saying, 'It's gonna sell.' I was earning enough to scrape by sometime around a book or two before 'Tell No One.' I moved up from $50,000 to $75,000, then $150,000 for each book. I had never thought I would be doing anything else. I had enough encouragement. "
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Think
Saying
Thought
" The state of New Jersey is really two places - terrible cities and wonderful suburbs. I live in the suburbs, the final battleground of the American dream, where people get married and have kids and try to scratch out a happy life for themselves. It's very romantic in that way, but a bit naive. I like to play with that in my work. "
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Life
Romantic
Work
" I try to stress to my children that buying something never leads to true happiness. "
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Happiness
Try
Children
" I'm a little bit of a control freak. "
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Control
Little
Freak
" What I want to do is tell stories about normal people in the American suburbs. I don't write the book where it's a conspiracy reaching the prime minister; I don't write the book with the big serial killer who lops off heads. My setting is a very placid pool of suburbia, family life. And within that I can make pretty big splashes. "
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American
Life
Book
" I like to see the difference between good and evil as kind of like the foul line at a baseball game. It's very thin, it's made of something very flimsy like lime, and if you cross it, it really starts to blur where fair becomes foul and foul becomes fair. "
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Baseball
Good And Evil
Good
" I'd never had money growing up, and it's never been that important to me, except maybe to take our kids on a nice vacation or something like that. "
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Vacation
Me
Growing Up
" You know, people call mystery novels or thrillers 'puzzles.' I never understood that, because when I buy a puzzle, I already know what it is. It's on the box. And even if I don't, if it's a 5,000-piece puzzle of the 'Mona Lisa', it's not like I put the last piece in and go, 'I had no idea it's the 'Mona Lisa'!' "
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People
Puzzle
Last
" If I don't write, I hate myself. Simple as that. My life is out of balance. "
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Balance
Simple
Hate
" I'm thinking of taking up golf, but the idea of spending time with golfers frightens me. "
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Spending Time
Thinking
Time
" This is the price you pay for having a great father. You get the wonder, the joy, the tender moments - and you get the tears at the end, too. "
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Father
End
Great