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" We are all unappealing. It is just a matter of how much we let people see it. "
Claire Messud
How
See
Much
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" I sometimes feel like a British writer more so than I feel like an American writer. But I think that has to do with my subjective understanding of what it means to be either of those things. "
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" In the world I've lived in, gay marriage, for example, seems completely logical. And yet there are many people who don't live in that world. "
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" As a kid, I used to tell all these stories. I remember meeting a childhood friend, and we were talking. We remembered that I had made up this story about going to Mars. And she looked at me and said, 'I didn't sleep for a week after that!' "
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" I'll always find the hardest path. Needless to say, not always a good idea. "
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Good
Find
" Yes, writing is essential to me. It's my way of living in the world. "
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World
Living
" Henry James and Edith Wharton are huge for me because they gave me a way to understand America while still respecting the European backgrounds of my relatives. "
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Way
Understand
" Things we write down are the fragments shored against our ruins. They outlast us, these scraps of words on paper. Like the detritus from the tsunami washing up on the other side of the ocean, writing is what can be salvaged. "
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Paper
Writing
Words
" I have always been interested in that relationship between what happens in our head and what happens in the world. "
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Been
Head
Relationship
" Years ago, I worked in a newspaper office, and there were men that would have fits of temper, and it was just accepted that that's who they were, and everyone would laugh about it, but if a woman got upset or angry, something wasn't right: she was 'hysterical' or 'a little unhinged.' It didn't have the same sort of connotation at all. "
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" I'm a different person in French. I'm a different person in New York. I'm a different person in Canada. "
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Canada
Different
New
" Women's anger is very scary to people, and to no one more than to other women, who think, 'My goodness, if I let the lid off, where would we be?' "
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Anger
People
Think
" When you're a kid, and someone is your best friend, you almost don't need words. It's almost like puppies in a - frolicking in a garden or something. You don't articulate stuff. You just live it. "
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Live
Best
Friend
" We live in a culture that wants to put a redemptive face on everything, so anger doesn't sit well with any of us. But I think women's anger sits less well than anything else. "
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Think
Anger
Culture
" Obstruction can be caused by so many factors - perfectionism, distraction, faltering confidence, external demands and pressures. At some point, of course, you've got to push through it all if you're to write, and if you don't, or can't, you're sunk. "
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Distraction
You
Push
" If I look at my make-up, Canada is a huge part of what I am. "
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Part
I Am
Huge
" For many of us, we set out thinking there will be time in the future, and then suddenly we find ourselves at a moment when we have to acknowledge that the future isn't infinite. "
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Us
Find
Future
" As a reader, I have always enjoyed 'ranty' books, but they are all written by men. "
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Reader
Always
Men
" I'd wish for my work to be remembered rather than myself. "
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Rather
Myself
Remembered
" There's this moment when kids realize that they have power and that they can use it. "
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Realize
Kids
Moment
" The Strauss allowed me to be a writer. Without it, 'The Emperor's Children' would not exist. When I received the award, I was teaching, had one baby, and was pregnant with another. There was no time for writing. "
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Time
Writing
Award
" I feel as though there are things that I'm trying to do - you know, capturing truthfully some aspect of human experience - and I'm trying really hard not to be fake. And in writing, as in life, it's harder than you think. "
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Writing
Think
" There are people who live under the delusion that simply because they will it to be so, it will be so. "
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Will
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" I always say to my students, 'If you can do anything other than writing and be happy, then you should.' "
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" I was in my senior year of high school when I read 'Notes From Underground' by Dostoyevsky, and it was an exhilarating discovery. I hadn't known up until that moment that fiction could be like that. Fiction could say these things, could be unseemly, could be unsettling and distressing in that particular way, that immediate and urgent way. "
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" If you live in a family or have five roommates, there's some sort of reality check, but when you live alone, there's a lot more leeway for your fantasy life to be more and more a part of your everyday life. "
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Live
You
Alone
" Because we moved so much, I was always having to adapt and work out the lay of the land. So I felt envious of those who did not have to try. "
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Work
Try
" If you're rich, you can leave a library, a building, or a hospital wing. But writing leaves behind a visceral sense of what it was like to be alive on the planet in a particular time. Writing tells us what it meant for someone to be human. "
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" The fictional narratives that television, film, and the news provide for girls and young women are appalling. "
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News
" I digress a lot - it's how I experience the world. I would like to write in a way that will convey that to the reader, but also I need clarity. "
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Need
" I wanted to write a voice that for me, as a reader, had been missing from the chorus: the voice of an angry woman. "
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Missing
Me