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" Writing requires an intense inner focus, and sometimes you need to express outward, physically or socially. "
Mary Gaitskill
Writing
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Need
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" When looking out the window and watching the water becomes a drama, then literally everything is a drama. "
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" I feel I'm often misunderstood by critics. People project a lot or exaggerate the subjective fragility simply because it's frightening to them. "
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" Anne Frank's diary made a very big impression on me at age 12 or so. "
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" One hot summer night in San Francisco, roughly 10 years ago, I was sitting in a crowded Pacific Heights restaurant when Alice Adams walked in with a man. She was about 60 at the time, and she was wearing a skirt that fell an inch or so above her knees and flat heels without stockings. "
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" There is a sense in which we have - like, I go in to teach a class; I may be somewhat different than I would be talking to you, although it's related because it's public. I'm very different with my roommate or my lover or my cats. But I don't know if that means you're acting, really, if you're being truthful. "
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Talking
Know
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" Sometimes I write from the point of view of characters whom I would dislike as people, not as a perverse exercise, but because this cracks the story open and makes me see it in a way I would not see it naturally. "
Mary Gaitskill
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Me
Exercise
" When I was writing 'Bad Behavior,' I was very, very quiet. I would just sit there and listen to people. And if I was out in public, I was usually quiet, and people tended to assume I was stupid because I was a young, pretty girl who's quiet. "
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Behavior
People
" Everyone says 'Anna Karenina' is about individual desire going against society, but I actually think the opposite is stronger: the way societal forces limit the expression of the individual. "
Mary Gaitskill
Think
Desire
Stronger
" I didn't start thinking about what I wanted to do professionally until I was 17. I was a hippie, but I did write. "
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Thinking
Write
Start
" Somebody once said to me, 'If you want to be understood, don't write fiction.' "
Mary Gaitskill
Want
Understood
Said
" Between my hatred of mall shopping and my mother's firm ideas about how a girl should dress, my style choices were pretty unenthusiastic: plaid skirts or whatever empire-waisted thingamabob was on sale at Sears. "
Mary Gaitskill
Dress
Girl
Style
" Stories are the rich, unseen underlayer of the most ordinary moments. "
Mary Gaitskill
Moments
Most
Stories
" I used to start at about 10 at night and work until early morning. My preferred way to work is to start in the early afternoon and work until about 3, go do errands, have dinner, and then write for a few more hours in the evening. "
Mary Gaitskill
Morning
Work
Way
" For two people to satisfy everything each needs for their entire lives is a tall order. Some couples may be equipped to do this. Some are not. "
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Tall
Everything
People
" I didn't like horses when I was a kid. "
Mary Gaitskill
Like
Kid
Horses
" I loved to read and would read anything that roused my interest, whether it was below my age level or above it, even if I could barely make sense of it. "
Mary Gaitskill
Sense
Level
Loved
" I had a strong conviction that there was something out there in the world that was wonderful. "
Mary Gaitskill
World
Strong
Conviction
" I wanted to communicate and connect. I simply didn't seem able to do it. "
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Able
Communicate
Connect
" I believe that the truest parts of people can be buried, and for many different reasons. "
Mary Gaitskill
Different
People
I Believe
" I think it actually started in my late thirties. I started changing psychologically, and it was difficult to translate that into my writing. "
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Think
Writing
Late
" The first person to blow up my fashion consciousness was a 14-year-old girl named Sandrine. She was the most beautiful human I had ever seen. "
Mary Gaitskill
Fashion
Beautiful
She
" If anything is scary about my writing, it's that it's the product of a very particular vision and doesn't reference common speech that heavily. By 'common speech,' I don't mean language as much as an agreed-on way of seeing, or a shorthand. "
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Writing
Language
Way
" I found the world extraordinarily strange, having first left home at 15. "
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Strange
First
Found
" Stories mimic life like certain insects mimic leaves and twigs. "
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Stories
Leaves
Life
" I think that with the proliferation of writing programs, people tend to forget that you also have to get used to working alone, and you have to be your own support. "
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Alone
People
Support
" My parents had met in high school and married right after my father came back from World War II. They honeymooned in Paris and returned to that city when my father, in college on the G.I. Bill, was awarded a Fulbright Scholarship. "
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Parents
School
War
" Something like riding a horse - which I've recently started doing - requires courage, especially for me, as I started out being actually scared of horses. "
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Courage
Riding
Me
" Sometimes I decide I don't want to write because it isn't the thing for me to be doing right then, and I go do something else. "
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Right
Me
Sometimes
" What is faithfulness, anyway? Can you be unfaithful to your own feelings and faithful to someone else? Is it faithful to lie in bed night after night with someone you love but no longer desire while ardently dreaming of someone else? "
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Lie
Desire
You
" At 16, I was in Toronto and very shy and not hanging around with anyone who was intellectual in the slightest, so I didn't really have the means to discuss what I was seeing and feeling. "
Mary Gaitskill
Seeing
Shy
Who