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" I think it actually started in my late thirties. I started changing psychologically, and it was difficult to translate that into my writing. "
Mary Gaitskill
Think
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Late
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" I found the world extraordinarily strange, having first left home at 15. "
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" People say that if you talk too much about sex, you take away the mystery. I say, if you're somebody who likes to talk, talk all you want - it's not listening. You will never take away the mystery. "
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" Having watched television, I would kind of play the role or picture myself on a television show or something like that. That's maybe always been true of a certain type of kid, even before television maybe, but I think it's been amplified to an insane level. "
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" You can't tell an 18-year-old to keep it down and turn off Britney Spears or whatever it is that they listen to. "
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" Writing requires an intense inner focus, and sometimes you need to express outward, physically or socially. "
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" Where I grew up, in the Detroit area, there was a really good station. Sometimes you would hear songs for the first time on the radio, and if a really special song came on, somebody would turn it up, and everybody would just stop talking. "
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" I didn't start thinking about what I wanted to do professionally until I was 17. I was a hippie, but I did write. "
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" Everyone says 'Anna Karenina' is about individual desire going against society, but I actually think the opposite is stronger: the way societal forces limit the expression of the individual. "
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" One hot summer night in San Francisco, roughly 10 years ago, I was sitting in a crowded Pacific Heights restaurant when Alice Adams walked in with a man. She was about 60 at the time, and she was wearing a skirt that fell an inch or so above her knees and flat heels without stockings. "
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" Between my hatred of mall shopping and my mother's firm ideas about how a girl should dress, my style choices were pretty unenthusiastic: plaid skirts or whatever empire-waisted thingamabob was on sale at Sears. "
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" On the rare occasions when my mother perfumed herself, she was going out, and so I rarely smelled those special scents up close on her body, except during kisses goodbye. "
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" I think people try to make the most of their time on Earth and also to 'fix' their time on Earth. "
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" Three writers together would be a nightmare of obstreperous self-consciousness. "
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" I didn't want to keep forcing myself to grind out book after book. "
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" Anne Frank's diary made a very big impression on me at age 12 or so. "
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" I remember back in the '90s, I used to feel criticized by women for not having children. Like there must be something wrong with me. "
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" Sometimes I write from the point of view of characters whom I would dislike as people, not as a perverse exercise, but because this cracks the story open and makes me see it in a way I would not see it naturally. "
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Exercise
" I don't think that the Internet creates feelings that aren't there, nor does it provide an outlet. On the contrary, what I have thought about things like computer games - what has disturbed me about them - is that they appear to stimulate feelings of aggression without providing any physical release. "
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Feelings
Think
" Somebody once said to me, 'If you want to be understood, don't write fiction.' "
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" Married, you're basically part of the herd, and that makes life easier in a lot of ways in terms of social support. But if you're not by nature a herd animal, you start to feel like you're passing. "
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Nature
" I believe that the truest parts of people can be buried, and for many different reasons. "
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" People sometimes turn out to be almost the opposite of how they present. It isn't because they're trying to fool you or because they're hypocrites. It's because they badly want to be that thing, and so they'll try to be it. "
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" My first and strongest memories about perfume come from childhood, from my mother, and they are a complex blend of her private and public selves. "
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" I don't know if I can say exactly what I seek in books, but one of them would be to deepen and expand my understanding of the world. "
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" I had a strong conviction that there was something out there in the world that was wonderful. "
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" I've noticed women my age and a little younger, anywhere from 35 to 50, saying, 'Who would want to bring kids into a world like this?' Or, 'I don't want to spend my life that way. I want to do my artwork.' And they're very unapologetically stating this. "
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" I had really wanted adventure. At the time that I ran away, lots of kids ran away from home. It was something of a social phenomenon. "
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